I met a guy last year in July. Well we dated, fell in love and I moved in. I started to not trust him 'cause of his history with women. He's been a player a time or two. But I can't say anything either. I've done it. Well to the more important point. He kicked me out 'cause I played a game with his head to see if I can trust and to find out what he is like because we had communication issues later in the relationship. Well. he caught me and kicked me out, but, I still live in the same neighbour hood with him. I can see his house out one of my windows and I caught him looking down at my place. Well also. I visit him but he never visits me (there is a reason for it that isn't related to this question.) Well sometimes he lets me come in when I visit and sometimes he gets impatient with me. He tells me we need space and I give it to him But I can't tell if he still has something for me. I know I broke his heart doing this ****. I regret but what can I do to really make it up to him?
2007-03-12 10:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by Peanut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is a VERY hard aspect to totally develop in a relationship, and also a very crucial one.
If you don't trust the person you care for, especially the person you care for and live with, then you should seek ways to learn whether or not you can, but you shouldn't have played games with him.
When you do that, it tells a guy that you don't trust him, and that you will never trust him.
And trust me, being accused of something you are not doing is one of the most frustrating things a guy can hear.
If he was being honest, and if he was being faithful to you, then he had every right to react the way that he did.
However, if you do care a lot about him, and if you do want to get back with him, then you should first apologize.
Tell him that it was immature, and that you never should have played mind games with him.
Tell him, though, that you did have concerns about his past with women. Let him know that it worried you that he could still be the same man. Don't accuse him of anything, and don't let him think you believe he is, just let him know that you're worried.
If he loves you, then he'll understand. He will try to be mature about it, which is difficult, and convince you, in any way that he can that you are the one that he wants to be with.
However, if he doesn't want to be with you, he doesn't, and he won't. I know it's a painful truth to take, but it's something we all have to accept at some point in our lives.
There's a big world out there, and love can be felt again with someone new.
Stay strong, and be honest!
2007-03-12 16:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by w3squick3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused of what, the way you betrayed him. Refresh it again.
2007-03-12 16:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-12 13:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋