Me and my bf have been going out now for 2 months..im 14....i REALLY love him..i dont want to loose him.
i had a bball tournament this weekend thta he was at with me and we hung out there and we were getting laong fine...we had recently got oevr a fightt...but were fine..
The day i was supposed to ocme home from the tournament..we were gonna hnag out..i was supposed to call him...i got back late and didnt get a chnace to go oevr to his house...
when i call him he tells me that he hung out with his ex gf who is a total ***** and she wants him back..he says thta he went over to her house...and that they were usposed to be just frineds...but they ended up making out...he told me her promised her that he would break up with mee
when we tlked he didnt dump me...should i give him a second chancee and stay with him...his ex is giving me all kinds of crap and she wont leave me or him alone...he told me he still has some feelings for her...he did tell me the truth tho..and he is sorry
2007-03-12 10:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by weirdofoshur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO. He cheated on you 2 months into the relationship. @ 2 months you should still be the honeymoon phase and he's already wandering. you may think you love him but you are very young and love is far more complex than you could possibly understand at 14, i know i've been there and i learned the hard way what love is. Cheating shouldn't ever be excused because of your behavior, so everytime you fight he's going to screw someone else. If you stay with this guy , he's going to hurt you really bad. He's playing you both, and it's going to get very ugly. Save yourself the drama please leave. You'll get over him.
2007-03-12 10:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through. My b/f who I stayed with stayed the night at a friends house which is not a problem at all, but another girl also stayed the night there too. (This girl is how he broke up with his ex) She moved here from another town and has been over almost every girls b/f. Anyways he says he didnothing but i always worry about him doing something with her. I trust him though. I would say if he told hois ex he was going to break up with you and made out with her and wants to get back with her. Thats a sign that he has nothing for you. See my case wans't that bad. In your case I would not give him that second chance.
2007-03-12 17:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just read the first sentence and that's all I need.
Dump him! The novelty of a relationship should be enough of a reason keep a person from cheating on the other. Two months, that's wayyyyy too short for anyone to consider cheating on someone. You might think that he is the only love of your life, but trust me, he isn't.
You sound like a nice girl... DUMP HIM!!!
2007-03-12 17:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Col 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO dump that loser. What's the point in him telling you all of this stuff anyway? It seems to me like he is too excited about his ex and given the details, he really doesn't care if you know about it. Do yourself a favor, leave this guy alone. If he tells you he has feelings for her and that they were kissing and...its just all too much. You're young so you can bounce back from this in no time. Forgive and Forget him!
2007-03-12 17:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's really up o you, it sounds to me that he will do these things again to you, once a cheat always a cheat, and the other saying, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, if you dont want to get hurt again , then dont get back with him, and find someone else
2007-03-12 17:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dump him your 14 my mother used to tell me that
Boys are like buses a new one comes along every couple of minutes
2007-03-12 17:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by schristine23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hun he does not love you yes you will be sad for awhile but he didnt love you when he was making out with his ex. you deserve better so dump him.
2007-03-12 17:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sheri M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that he has proved to you that he can't be trusted,let the ex have him,they deserve each other,you can do much better.
2007-03-12 18:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forgive hom theres better out there
2007-03-12 17:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by crystal h 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋