i been in a relationship 4 two years but recently broke up i got pregnant 4 months after we started talking.during my pregnancy we went through alot and he always said he didnt care bout certain things until now i dont believe he care bout me at all y do i feel like that i wanna feel love but not sure if he loves me wats with dat?
2007-03-12 10:10:26 · 30 answers · asked by lakita s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youre delusional
2007-03-12 10:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women tend to fall for the guy who seems to have a lot of confidence when in reality the man is in love with himself. Not all men only care about them selves. Next time pick a guy who doesn't think he's all that.He'll probably be the shy one who doesn't talk a whole lot but, will give you the shirt off his back if you give him the chance.Good luck. From a shy guy.
2007-03-12 10:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you've had a child, he/she is your first priority. You have maternal instincts to protect your baby at all costs. After you broke up with your boyfriend, you probably lost a lot of trust for him and I'm guessing your focus centered more around the baby after he was out of the picture. My guess is that he caused a lot of problems for you and your kid. Now your ex wants to come back but your maternal instincts are telling you not to trust him, because he's hurt you before. Give it time and maybe love will rekindle and he will be able to prove himself. It's possible that this may never happen, so keep a keen eye out for another potential father figure. I hope everything turns out well!
2007-03-12 10:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by thesekeys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not just a guy thing...it goes both ways. I think it sounds as if you guys thought less about the love and long term longevity of your relationship then the sex part. And, though, there is nothing wrong with the sex part, you should be mindful of such consequences. So to that aspect, since the dudes dont have the babies, they have that out of "not caring". Dont confuse love with sex...they are NOT the same....
2007-03-12 10:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably due to the fact you have been dating A. A playa or B. a boy! Might I suggest that you try dating a man. A real man, who pays his bills, loves you for you and is not needy. It is true that most males have streamlined emotional input and output sensors, but you have to remember that men are creatures of logic, not emotion. But that doesn't mean we cannot be affectionate, loving, and supportive. So change what you value and I think you will do better in the man department.
2007-03-12 10:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to know about your problem but its unfair to blame all the men as , if you think honestly, you are eqallly responsible for your plight. You should have taken safety precaution to avoid this embarrassment but you were enjoying "life" then. Anyway The problem with us is that we don't show our feelings easily while women start screaming about every thing too early and that makes us a little mean in the eyes of women.
2007-03-12 10:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by dua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't generalize Lakita! Some men do care, and a lot. Sorry you've gone through so much at such a young age but you will learn with time and more experience under your belt that there are some men worth their weight in gold!
2007-03-12 10:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls don’t appreciate guys who really do care about others. And some girls seem to only like guys who are jerks. With those incentives is it any wonder that a lot of guys are self-centered. Just my opinion for what it’s worth.
It’s still not the right way for guys to act & not all men are like that.
2007-03-12 10:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mike H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just generalized the entire male population on the planet. Men do care about other people. I care about other women, but I don't care about women who generalize.
You got pregnant and your ex won't support you ... it's your own fault for having sex with your boyfriend, AFTER you broke up.
2007-03-12 10:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he desires to end yet would not choose to experience to blame so he'd particularly you end him. i be attentive to its difficult once you like somebody plenty yet they cope with u like sh*t, you will discover somebody else as time is going on who will deal alongside with your spectacular in case you reside with this lad he's only gonna smash your heart. And if he's ringing different ladies yet can not be afflicted to ring you that asserts all of it =( only get the ladies around have a girlie night in or out and have relaxing you would be stunned at how plenty your friends can cheer you up and take your concepts off issues.
2016-11-24 23:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do care about other things
you just picked the wrong guy for what you want, there are guys out there who don't always think about sex, blowjobs, **** and such (sorry for foul language) i'm one of those guys, cause when i like a girl, i like her, and i dont treat her like some sex tool.
2007-03-12 10:16:19 · answer #11 · answered by rds_pyro 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋