I have 3 best friends: Lydia Sarah and Luc .Sarah is dating Luc. Luc is cheating on sarah with Lydia(who is sarahs BESTFRIEND--there realy close) and I told Sarah and sarah dosn't belive me!! I know he is cheating on her but she just wont listne to me!! I tell Luc every day that he making a huge mistike and that he has to ether break up with Lydia or sarah becase he just cant go out with both!!!but he wont listen to me ether. He ses that he LOVES both of them way to much. I Don't want sarah to get hurt by luc but i don't know what to do to get her to belive me!!! HELPP PLEASE!!
2007-03-12 10:06:08 · 13 answers · asked by micky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could take pictures or video the cheaters in action. Sneak up on them and catch them! your friend is in denial sounds like. if that doesn't work well thats all you can do. she'll realize one day.
2007-03-12 10:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you told her, there is nothing you can do at this point. You will find with age, comes wisdom. You will learn that most woman either wont believe you, or blame you, yes believe it or not, they could blame you for it not him. No it makes no sense at all, but thats what happends. Let it go and be there for her when she finally learns the truth, cause trust me, eventually everything will come out and she will need you. DOnt gloat on the fact that you were right, just be there as her friend to support her. I wish you the best of luck, this situation really sucks and that guy has a lot to learn about life, and the fact that he doesnt even know what love is.
2007-03-12 10:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by reneestoy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get photos or tell Lydia you know what she is doing and it is wrong. Then if Sarah doesn't want to listen tell her she better be checked for STD's because Luc is sleeping around and you don't want her to get anything. Maybe they have an agreement that they can see others.
2007-03-12 10:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've told Luc and Sarah; there is nothing more you can do, so stop bringing it up. Just try to be there for your friends when the fallout comes.
2007-03-12 10:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever given your mom reason to mistrust you in the previous? If particular, that's form of the fee you pay. If no, ask why she is distrusting once you have in no way given her reason to in the previous. there's a threat that your mom is a non-trusting individual first of all after which you will no longer have any administration over that. you be attentive to her ultimate. only remind your self which you be attentive to the reality. the only individual whose concepts and emotions you are able to administration is you. If it facilitates, i think you. That become a advantageous considerate element you probably did. do exactly no longer replace using fact somebody did no longer have confidence in you. shop up the coolest artwork. it could't be efficient on the instant although this is going to sometime.
2016-11-24 23:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up, hon. Some girls just don't want to see the hard facts in front of him, and guys are by nature polygamous. The idea of a family is more of our social construction. The girl just has to touch the damn fire to know it's hot.
2007-03-12 10:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by inscribson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off hes a man whore and shouldnt have either of em.u cant love 2 people.and he doesnt even love one.especially if he cheats on her.but try 2 get one of em 2 listen.and if they dont then give it time.and they can find out on their own....and u can say i told ya so.she should trust u neways.wat kinda friend believes a guy over a friend?
2007-03-12 10:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kandice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god you fcked up already dont get into the problem let them figure it out on their own their the ones with the mess i know you want to help but you'll just end up getting your @ss kicked trust me stay away from the fire
2007-03-12 10:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her straight
You have to get it through her really shout and say stuff like
I swear i wouldent lie to you your a friend and i wouldent do that !
2007-03-12 10:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like sands through the hourglass...
2007-03-12 10:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋