i am 26 yrs old and currently dating a wonderful, successful man... he's dependable, kind generousand always there for me when i need him.. like he drives me to job interviews cuz i don't have a car... he calls me everyday to see how am doing... if he sees a nice pair of jeans or something he'll take me and tell me to choose whatever i want.. we stay at the best hotels and really have a great time..i realised how luck i am when a girlfriend of mine told me how her boyfriend didn't want to pay for her dinner... anyway, my godmother is always asking me if am sure he doesn't have other girlfriends despite the fact that he spends a lot of time with me.... she put it in my head and now i'm worried that i may lose him to some other chic.... he recently asked me if i wanted to have children with him and also asked me to be his business partner on his new venture! is my godmother right or am i paranoid?
2007-03-12 10:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, ask him if he has another girl.
2007-03-12 10:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now I would honestly say the Godmother needs to but out of your life. She may be envious of you and the fact that you found a nice guy, who really wants to take care of you.
But the thing is, from what you mention, it also sounds like he could be scamming you unfortunately. I had someone like that years ago...and lets just say I have a few thousand dollar bills I didn't know I had when I broke up with him. Turned out the creep was a con artist and wanted in half the states for scamming women out of their money.
What I would do is be honest and up front with him. Tell him that your family is worried about you and that he just to them seems to good to be true. Ask him to meet with them or have them meet him.
If he says no, then your godmother is right. He is to good to be true and you need to leave him quickly before you regret it. But if he says yes, then see what happens as the family meets him. Then they will have no reason to give you any doubts about him save that they just don't like him.
2007-03-12 17:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by ladydragonstar26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but forget your Godmother! You have a great thing going, and I'm sure lots of people (including me) would envy you! I've been with my bf for close to a year now, and he's ready to kick me out bc I just got on disability and can't afford to pay him my share of rent this month. Isn't that ridiculous? I have never in my life had a guy treat me that great...it's like something you only hear of in the movies. You are so lucky! Don't lose him!
2007-03-12 17:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your gut. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. True sometimes you will get burned, but if you don't try then you'll for sure lose this guy and every guy in the future. I think your godmother is trying to look out for you, but who knows your bo better, you or her? Who's dating him? Who's heart is on the line? Trust your gut.
2007-03-12 17:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Welshmaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're paranoid. Why would he spend so much time and money with you if he has another girl in his life? Also, why would he want to go into business with you? That would require spending more time together. He sounds like a good guy. Just make him happy.
2007-03-12 17:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Philippe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like grandma has some trust issues. Not sure what more you could want.
2007-03-12 17:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dday22t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a sad sad godmother........shes ToTaLlY out of here gosh damn mind!
2007-03-12 17:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Alex C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋