Ok so one night a few months ago I met a guy when i was out, and we got on really well together. So at the end of the nite he walked me to the car which was picking me up , and my sister was in the car. It turned out she already knew him and fancies him but he has no feelings for her anymore.She immediately warned me off him and told me to stay away from him. So of course blood is thicker than water abd i valued her alot more so i did , even tho i still liked this guy. Ever since we hav been txting eachother and we had met up once , and she found out, Now she isnt talking to me. I dont know what to do.! Please help me.
2007-03-12 10:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you must kick this guy to the kerb - obviously your sister knows alot more than she is willing to let on about this guy - most guys if they've had a girl and have the option to have the sister-they will, just to get back at the sister- if you love your sisyer just trust her in this matter- better the devil you know honey- i hope this is of help
2007-03-12 10:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by m s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do this two ways. You can live by the blood is thicker than water rule or you can just continue it. Your sister is selfish and is stopping you from being happy. Okay she fancied him, but did she go out with him? Was she with him for a long period of time and most importantly, does she own him? Confront your sister and say what I said, because no one and I mean not even your sister, has the right to stand in your way from happiness.
2007-03-12 17:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by drrespected 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still fancies him but he has no feelings for her any more? If you and this person like each other there is nothing to stop you getting to know each other better. Whilst I respect your loyalty initially to your sister I think she is just being bitchy. From your posting I am usure she warned you off him because of something in his past history or warned you off as in 'hands off' him as she wanted him? Whatever it is not relevant. If it was the later it is not your fault she has no chance of getting him and if it it because of his past doesn't seem that bad since she still fancies him. If he wants to ask you out certainly go you both have been playing around for months. Tell her firmly but kindly she really has nothing to grouse about.
2007-03-12 11:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sister may be a little jealous, but if you think there is really something there then go for it. IF not then don't bother cause all your going to accomplish is losing your sister over a guy who isn't even going to be around.
2007-03-12 10:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refer for your boss about it. If that would not exercising consultation then evaluate getting yet another job (determined situations require determined measures, always bear in options that)! i imagine that I actually have a concept of the position u are coming from. We had a similar problem on the workplace the position a guy didn't want to artwork at the same time with his son interior a similar branch because they were always getting own with one yet another. regrettably, 4 weeks later his son end. Gd success
2016-12-01 21:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your sister loved you she would not sacarfice your happiness. if the guy likes you and not her then tell her or get him to tell her that he likes you and not her....but if it continues to be a problem for your sister and she has a good enough reason for not letting you see him then i think you shud tell the guy to leave you both alone...because something like this can be a problem forever...it may seem to be forgotton in years to come but if you have an arguement again then it can be brought back up and emotions will run very high....
2007-03-12 11:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she felt that way about him then she should of made her move. It's not your fault you met (a stranger at the time) and got on well with him. She will get over it once she realises you are happy.
2007-03-12 10:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Les-Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sister really loved you then she would want you to be happy and not just warn you away from someone because she likes them and is jealous.
2007-03-12 10:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you decide!!! What is more sister or that guy??? Guys are not worth it what if he dumps you then what will you do?? You wont have a sister to talk to! Your sister will laugh in your face so think about it really carefully!
2007-03-12 10:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she wont let you see him and try and make a promise that none of you see this guy cause familys more inportant than boys your find a new one next week probley so go and try and make up with your sister while your still got her xxx good luck
2007-03-12 10:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by i wnt a bf who dnt cheat or lie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋