I want propose marriage to my girlfriend but I have scare that she will say not, we have 7 months together, It's to many early to propose marriage?
2007-03-12 10:02:56 · 42 answers · asked by catman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, 7months not to early, i met my wife over the phone, dialed wrong call, talked with her for 3 weeks, got married month later. now weve been together 14yrs. so i would suggest not doing it wer thers a croud or she might feel shell have to say yes, so do it somewer private, like a park.
2007-03-12 10:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can propose any time you want. The point that I want to make here though is that you should have some indication from the person you want to marry that they are ready to marry. I believe it's far better to discuss the IDEA of marriage before proposing. You should know her well enough to know what direction she wants to go in.
If you have no idea of how she would react, I believe it's better to find out what's on her mind. If she's mentioned things like she's very happy with you and expects to be with you for a long time, etc., then that should give you some indication. For you to be afraid of her saying no - means that you have no idea of her thoughts on this, and for that I would say that instead of proposing, you need to find out her feelings about marriage, first. You can always find a way to bring up the subject casually, without it seeming as though you've made any decisions yourself. You'd get your answer without having to feel rejected if she were to say that she's not ready yet or whatever her reason may be.
2007-03-12 10:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Plexed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're of legal age, it's fine to propose. If you feel that you love her and are prepared to spend the rest of your life with her, then it's the right time. But I would recommend that you wait until at least a year if not longer.
You could take her out to dinner at a nice restaturant, get down on one knee, pull out the ring, and romantically pop the question. For a more romantic approach, relate something the two of you remember and incorporate that in some how.
2007-03-12 10:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you think it is not to early, because if you rush into it you might lose her. That would be awful!
I don't really know but I have always wanted a promise ring so you might want to start with that if you haven't. That to me is almost like proposing.
I f you were to propose i have always wanted to be proposed to by having him ask me out on my birthday or during the Christmas season,but taking her to dinner even better making her dinner. That is romantic and making the house look nice(rose petals).
2007-03-12 10:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose in a way that matches who you are. Make it romantic if you are a romantic guy, or quiet and close if you are quiet. But, dont do it, if you think it is too soon. if you do not feel a 100% about it, then that is a sign that it is too soon. Tackle some of the bigger issues together, and get a feel from her to make sure you are both on the same page (or at least in the same book....) Good Luck...
2007-03-12 10:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this a bit premature to be proposing marriage. You should wait a little longer to get to know the person fully. You are probably still in the infatuation phase so wait to see if this will last. Marriage will just make things complicated.
2007-03-12 10:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by onlyoneshea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that u 2 have a strong bond then go 4 it. if u don't wait a little wile. u can though propose to her at a game or when i saw this movie when the gril came out of the store and there was music and dancing and the guy proposed then. it was so romantic,. u should do that the movie was hindi salam-e-ishq.
2007-03-12 10:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Fathema B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it fine to propose. If she says no date for longer and then try again. If you are too nervous to get down of your knees then do something fun like this, Since it is Easter time put the ring in an egg (one of those plastic ones) and tell her to open it. Thats how my step-father proposed to my mother.
2007-03-12 10:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Emily Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great! Good luck!
Anyways, I don't think it's too early. My step-dad asked my mother to marry him only after a couple months of dating, and she said yes. Don't put a date for proposal. If you know you're in love with her and you know it's right, then go for it. You don't need to worry about it.
Every man on this planet is scared when they are about to ask someone to marry them. You may even feel sick. My friend, Jordan, asked his girlfriend to marry him, and he felt sick to his stomach before he did it. A guy may act macho and like it was nothing, but they always get scared.
Don't worry about it =). If you know that she has feelings for you and both of you know you're in love, then that's all that matters. Good luck!
2007-03-12 10:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have been together 7 months then she probably definantly loves you and is waiting for that special question. Maybe take her out to her favorite resturant, or maybe that movie she wanted to see, then pop the question. If she loves you she will not say no! And no it is not to early, if you are ready than do it whenever you want to
2007-03-12 18:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋