2007-03-12 09:54:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I dont know and dont know why youd want to. You dont know anything though you think you do now, Im sure you think you understand everything and all that a marriage involves. But I can assure you that you dont, and you will be in for a very rude awakening. 16 is for living it up, enjoying your summers out of school, hangin out with friends at the lake.You change so much by the time you get to your 20's youll wonder why your thinking something crazy like this!You should just enjoy yourself, commiting to someone at such a young age is sure to bring dissapointment and not being satisfied, because though you think you are grown up, your NOT the same person you will be in 5 or 10 years.
2007-03-12 10:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is going to say don't do it but, if you love each other getting married isn't going to bring you closer it's going to make your parents hate each others partner even more because their going to say you guys are irrational and inmature. this will make it harder for you guys to see each other. Make the parents like you and keep it that way! Trust me it will be worht it when they accept it in a year or two and then you guys can have sex in the house because they have gone to bed and don't care you guys are still up alone in a room with the door closed. It is awesome to get to spend so much time together ALL Day, rather than having to sneak off and only get a few hours everyday (OUTSIDE)!
2007-03-12 10:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by vsexygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that if you're sixteen, you shouldn't get married. Even if you&your boyfriend are made for eachother, you should still wait until you're 18 or whatever the legal age is wherever you live. I don't think there is anywhere you can do that, especially not here in Canada.
2007-03-12 10:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by wonderniikii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to elope at 16? I personally would wait a few years still.
2007-03-12 09:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but as a parent, I'm going to beg you not to elope if that's your intention. You are too young and inexperienced. If that's what you are thinking of doing, I wish you'd come back to Yahoo and ask some questions.
2007-03-12 09:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by bombastic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's a place out west called Stupidville where teenagers are allowed to make major commitments that will impact the rest of their lives. Society has learned that people who marry at 16 never have any regrets about not taking advantage of all the opportunities in the world and stay married forever and ever.
2007-03-12 10:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
honestly, you've each correct to have your wedding ceremony the way that you want to! I had a small wedding ceremony on the sea coast and invited in undemanding words moms, dads, brothers, and sisters like you want to do. It became out superbly. particular, a number of my aunts were disenchanted that they did not get to come back. yet they nevertheless love me and they were given over it basically superb. in the journey that they want what's nice for you and love you they are going to forgive you for it. as well, in a wedding ceremony someone always receives their emotions damage no count number how vast or how small your wedding ceremony is. So, i urge you to bypass ahead and performance your small ceremony with basically whomever you want there. Then have a higher reception and in case your aunts, cousins, whomever does no longer want to come back to that then i imagine that in the accurate they are going to remorseful about no longer likely. they ought to ultimately have your best activity at heart. My relatives did and each thing is basically superb now. Take a stand and do what you want to do. for sure, your relatives individuals have each correct to experience damage because that's in undemanding words a organic human reaction that anybody may have. best of success to you!
2016-12-01 21:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thankful that there were laws in place that kept me from marrying my highschool boyfriend, as I'm not special enough to have gotten past that mistake. You'll feel the same. It takes maturity and experience to come to this realization, but most of us do. You'll miss out on some really fun stuff if you take the leap now.
2007-03-12 09:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and tell your parents. Do you really want to distance yourself from them forever? Maybe there is some kind of arrangement that you both can come to. While we are at it...isn't 16 way too young?!
2007-03-12 09:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Las Vegas
2007-03-12 09:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋