trashy is sexy....how can i get him to understand that i am not trashy..i like to dress well conservative but sexy..theres a difference.between sexy and trashy..i have class and when i shop for clothes i like to buy things that fits well look good and is sexy at the same time..should i change for him??
my boyfriend taste and my taste in things are so different
i know what type of remales he like..the ones that are on the rap video..like eminenmen..fifty cents..on fat joe..i dont have a problem dressing trashy for the bedroom but to go out like that..oh please
2007-03-12 09:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really don't know why some guys like that but to each their own. You are just going to have to put your foot down and tell him that the provocative clothes are for the bedroom only and if he keeps it up you won't wear them there either. Let him know you love him but you feel good the way you dress and he is just going to have to accept it.
2007-03-12 10:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, you can dress simple, but yet sexy too. I would not suggest dressing trashy out, because people will give you a bad rep. And you don't want that of course. Maybe you two should work things out like, so that you guys can both get what you want. Inbetween trashy & sexy. Good luck. :] Have fun.
2007-03-12 16:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL i know what you mean! but its good you save it for the bedroom ,if you looked trashy al the time he wouldnt find it so exciting when you did, so keep it up! and dont let a man change how u dress
2007-03-12 16:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by luckyduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just like that. I also hate it when guys think trashy is sexy - it is much better to wear an evening gown than a corset with your boobs up to your neck ANYDAY!
2007-03-12 16:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tyr to wear clothes that aren't so reveiling and 'sexy' turn it down and don't act trashy in anyway that to guys is almost saying "i'm trashy and i'm all yours!" if he still doen't get it tell him or ask him nesxt time you to go out, something like wich top? and give your opinion on the sexy but no trashy one. hope this has helped!
2007-03-12 16:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your style is awesome!
trashy ewww
just keep dressing the way you do and if he doesnt like it and wants you to look trashy all the time then he doesnt like you for you.
instead of wearing bootie shorts to the mall and wearing a cute shirt with a nice fitted looking skirt is my thing anyday
if he wants you to look like that all the time then you need to talk with him
say like when i meet your parents is that how you want me to look
or say when we see your parents next time do you really think they are going to get the right idea with me dressed that way.
just explain to him that is how you dress and you perfer looking that way in public
2007-03-12 17:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get dress in what makes you comfortable and if that is a nice pant outfit well fine i would tell him if he wants to see sexy ever(in the bedroom) then he can just give it up fact is ware you old-es pj to bed something just nasty hahaha
2007-03-12 17:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by sasha g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself for anyone. He should love you for who you are, not for what you look like or what you dress in. Keep doing things the way you feel comfortable, and do not change it for anyone. If he loves you, he will accept it.
2007-03-12 16:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Pauly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm quite sure you suspect that the answer to this question is NO. You should not change your style just to please him. Either he likes you for who you are or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it movin'. . .plenty of other fish in the sea.
I think if you are willing to dress that way in the bedroom that should suffice.
2007-03-12 16:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by inaru816 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I've got quite a good look of sexy if you get one of them long dress tops and a pair of legins and wear french nickers there sexier than any think else and were a push up bra and straighton your hair then get some styling spray and push it up so it looks like its messy but tamed that should work a treat i wore it on my 2nd date with my boyfriend and we got our groove on if you get what I'm saying.......
2007-03-12 17:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by sian_babi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋