Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me.
2007-03-12 09:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, But what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose you. A special girl like you is hard to find. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad. I get lost in your eyes. No other girl has your bright smile. I remember the last thing you said was I don't know you. You told me before that, when I was feeling down that you could tell something was wrong because you know me! I know I don't know everything about you, but I want to know everything about you. I really care about you you're special to me. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid. I should have understood then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I had for you.
2007-03-12 09:55:25 · update #1
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, I realize that's worse. So, for these things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened and if necessary forget that there was any mention of romantic interest between us. Maybe we could chill and hang out somewhere sometime as just friends, because I know with you I don't have a chance. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you.(end)
2007-03-12 09:57:15 · update #2
This is not a letter, I want to say this to her. Guys and girls what do you think? Girls, would you talk to me again if you were her (I can handle the hard truth)? Are there any revisions I should do? How do I make this shorter so I don't bore her? I just have this feeling if I try actually talking to her instead of ignoring her she might listen. We've been saying hi to each other occasionally. I have not tried to speak to her in the time of us not talking, I've ony called once then hung up out of fear a long time ago, basically I haven't tried hard at all. The ignoring thing seems like it's taking too long in terms of her coming to me, but she sneaks glances at me from a distance. and that's just not me. I guess I'm just mister nice guy.
2007-03-12 09:59:18 · update #3
What do I do for her birthday? She turns 17 in two weeks. I turned 17 last month.Would me saying, "But what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose you." make her mad? And what I mean by I didn't want to lose her is I didn't want to lose her to another guy even though I never "had" her. I changed "I still haven't found a girl with your bright smile" to "No other girl has your bright smile" from a previous suggestion. Is that a good change?
2007-03-12 10:00:52 · update #4
I'm changing: But what boy wouldn't obsess over a amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose you. It still doesn't make it right though and I'm sorry.
Or: There isn't another amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you. I just didn't want to lose you.
2007-03-12 11:19:21 · update #5
I don't really see anything wrong with this. If this is how you feel, then there is nothing wrong with it. This whole thing will be nothing, but words, unless you put action behind them. That means treat her as a friend and nothing more. Understand what comes along with that, like the fact she may like or see other people etc...
Once you give this to her, the ball is in her court and there is really nothing more you can do. You may have to except that she does not want to be friends anymore. If she doesn't you need to except that and get on with your own thing.
2007-03-12 10:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just trying to tell her what you said here. Maybe a letter, or even a poem - girls like that stuff. Just tell her whats in your heart - be honest. And if you think you can be just friends then great - but if you will always love her from afar, just being your wonderful self, may be enough to impress her one day. Good Luck Romeo - may you find your Juliet.
Michelle
2007-03-12 10:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, my mistake with ladies in center college replaced into attempting to beg for his or her love like you've. What i have finished now might want to be act more beneficial sit back. do not imagine about her each of the time, discover some thing else. and do not you DARE say, "yet oh i visit't quit wondering about her i respect her a lot" boohoo. ladies like a sturdy positive guy. no longer a needy crybaby. One attitude you would possibly want to apply is basically start up ignoring her for awhile. Then she'll imagine, "hmm why would not he like me anymore? Have i finished being eye-catching, possibly i ought to attempt harder to be eye-catching." And BINGO she'll pursue YOU. yet truly, the major issue you want to do is provide her area and act like she's no longer the in undemanding words issue on your existence. that's going to artwork, and if it would not you'll a minimum of be acquaintances that's more beneficial useful than no longer some thing. the biggest issue is that she needs to experience tender round you to love you and she will't do this if you're always like i respect you do you adore me? you're so acceptable. it will start up to sound like you do not recommend it. ladies always favor new issues, they are not happy with one issue too lengthy, attempt diverse options to win her love.
2016-12-01 21:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, u know 10 months is a long time.. just let go and u will find someone else eventually .. there 's someone out there who will take ur breath away.. if u wait patiently and focus on urself im sure there will be someone for u .. of course ur hurt by love but it only make u stronger and teach u something that u have learned from ur past relation.. so .. keep ur head up ya hear?..
2007-03-12 14:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdumplin10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might not help very much, but if thats how you feel then u should say it. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. And if she doesn't understand after you tell her, than maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you...But don't worry, you'll find some1! Good LUCK!
2007-03-12 10:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by kaylajaimebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you like her alot maybe shes not liking tht you are always buggn her thats why she dont feel the same about you. you should just simply tell her how you feel and if she has nothing to say then your gonna have to move on.
2007-03-12 10:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jelly_Beans13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is amazing! If you give that to her she will love you forever! It is beautiful! You're a great writer.....Just if my boyfriend was like you......BEst of wishes!
2007-03-12 10:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Volleyball Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really good and it seems sincere, I'd tell her everything you just said and if she doesn't respond to you, let it go, don't go chasing someone that doesn't want you.
2007-03-12 10:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as its from the heart, itll be perfect.
2007-03-12 10:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh helloooooo stalker.
2007-03-12 09:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋