This is going to sound like a very weird question but I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and half months and I don't think that he is attracted to me physically. I don't know if he thinks that by doing something he is going to make me feel uncomfortable or what. Please help!! He was married before so I know that he can't be shy. I am new at this hole dating thing so help me.
2007-03-12 09:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by sbooth17554 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you think he isn't attracted physically???
what is he attracted to then??? YOUR PERSONALITY ONLY???
2007-03-12 09:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually what happens when a guy has been married and divorced is that they don't want to make the same mistakes they did in the marriage. So what I would suggest is talking to him let him know how you feel and let him know that you need for him to show you some affection. If this doesn't change things than it's time to move on.
2007-03-12 09:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either that he really likes you and dosent want to rush things and destroy the relationship over something like that. After all 2 and a half months might be long enough for someone like you, but he may want more time.
Also keep in mind that it dosent have to be the male who always makes the first move and you could initiate things.
2007-03-12 09:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by lifes_confusing_soask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hole dating"???
Sounds like a trap you really don't wanna fall into, know what I mean?
Have you two been intimate yet?
If not, why?!?
That should tell you if he's sexually and/or physically attracted to you or not.
And after 2 1/2 months?!?
Come on now...
Get real!
P.S. Plus he's been married before so I know he ain't saving himself until marriage!!!
2007-03-12 09:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word: communicate!
Tell your boyfriend everything you said here and how it makes you feel. And ask him for what you want from him. See if he delivers.
Has he kissed you at least?
I certainly would not continue dating a man who has never kissed me at this point and I certainly would have spoke up very early on.
If he's worried about making you feel uncomfortable than he has a BIG problem.
2007-03-12 09:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by KathyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to just like someone emotionally 2 but as long as he isnt in to someone else phisiacally then ur fine but if u want him into u phisically then were skimpy shirts and shorts and stuff hope i helped
2007-03-12 09:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋