How do you know when you are ready to go all the way with a guy.?

Question

I've dated this guy for 1 whole year. and I know he wants this so bad. but I make him wait as a game. I tease him and then I leave. I'm a virgin. he says he do. he's changed alot since a first met him. from a player to someone who seems like he's all into me. he's changed alot all in the name of "love". what other changes will he make. should I make him wait to find out.
oh, by the way. I love him.

Answer 1

It kinda just happens, but I can tell...you're not ready, you a bit scared. Just wait till it feels right and remember to practice safe sex!
A.L.

Answer 2

It depends on how old you are. If you're <16 no. Another indicator is whether or not you have to ask "How do you know when you are ready to go all the way with a guy.?" If you have to ask, then no, you're not ready.

Sidenote: "I know he wants this so bad. but I make him wait as a game. I tease him and then I leave." <- That there is being an outright B I T C H and is an excellent way to lose a guy.

Answer 3

If your with someone for a year they have earned a certain level of trust they deserve consideration. But if your not ready don't do it. No matter who you will ever sleep with you will always remember your first time. Some things women should do to keep their man happy but that is non-negociable. It only happens when your ready and comfortable. But teasing him is not cool. I've waited for women before and waiting wasn't the thing that killed me (there's always porn) it was the teasing. Being a good girl is a good thing but don't be a b***h while your being good. It's not nice and so unfair.

Answer 4

First of all, the fact that you had to ask this question tells me that you are NOT READY!!

Second of all, if he LOVES you so much then he should be willing to wait until you are married.

Third of all........I dont care how long you date a guy.........
if you arent married.......he doesnt have to stay and possibly wont. I had a boyfriend for over 6 months.........then I decided that I was "ready to go all the way" and then he got another girlfriend the next week..........he waited 6 months to get me into the sack and then left. Oh yah.........he "loved me".....NOT, but he sure did tell me that he loved me.

Answer 5

If youre confident in that you have gotten him to settle for one girl (you), and youre certain hes truthful about being a virgin. Even if he says he isnt thats ok as long as hes not lying. 1year is a lot longer then most go in a relationship without going all the way.

Just make sure you both talk about it first openly. And use a new condom, not the ones he had in his wallet for months.

Answer 6

You will know when you are ready with him. You will feel super comfortable around him, and it will just happen. Don't make him wait to just see what else he will change, because that is kinda mean. When you feel that you are ready, go for it. How old are you?

Answer 7

If you're young no. Some guys just act like that just to get in your pants. Don't be so naive. If he's a player, he's not going to change.

Answer 8

WARNING! It's a game!!! He's still a player. A player doesn't stop when a girl doesn't "give it up" he only gets it from somewhere else.
Giving up the big V is a big thing...Make sure of who you give it to.

Answer 9

being a tease is immature and you are not ready to move on to the next step in a loving relationship until you are more mature

Answer 10

You are not going to like my answer, but you should really consider waiting untill you are married. I know that just seems like something your parents tell you, but trust me, you will be happy you did.