I am 16 an have been with my bf for almost 2 yrs. (In may) We have had sex numerous times and i was wondering if you think our parents suspect we have done anything.
2007-03-12 09:22:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
As a parent of an 18 year old, YES we do suspect the possibility of our children having sex. We don't like to know they do, but we were teens once too and we know how your hormones are! You are to young to be having any babies, so please... USE CONDOMS or some other type of birth control.
2007-03-12 09:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by JBsGal215 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you're wondering... obviously it hasn't stopped you from having sex in the past. Chances are your parents think you aren't that physical with each other, but I am sure the thought has crossed their minds that the two of you are old enough to make this decision and might have already lost your virginity. No parent WANTS to think that, but deep down it is a concern. I think it's interesting you justified your sexual relationship with your boyfriend by mentioning how long you've been together.
2007-03-12 16:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure that they are aware that you have experienced some sort of sexual activity. your 16 and have been in a relationship for 2 years. I hope your using birth control.
as a mother i would rather my child talk to me about any questions that they have. then hide anything and have to tell me later that they cant finish school cause of a unplanned pregnancy.
that being said. I think that most parent these days dont have their heads in the sand regarding teens and sex . good luck and keep it coverded
2007-03-12 16:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My little sister is about your age and I can't imagine her having sex. You should let your parents know. It's important incase something should happen like you gettin prego. Mom's don't want to find out their daughter is having sex, but it's even worse to let her find out by oh yah by the way you're going to be a Grandma. Thats not fair to your mom. You should let her know. . . your mom (aside from what you may thing) is probably a smart lady. All moms are in their own way she's going to be mad and she's going to be angry but that's her job. You'll do the same thing when you're a mom. Would you want your kid to tell you? If you think you're adult enough to make the choice to have sex, you should be adult enough to stand up and admit you're doing it. Otherwise you're still a little girl, doing a big thing trying no to let your mommy know.
2007-03-12 16:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's likely that they probably have a good idea that something is going on and are suspicious that you may have had sex or that you have been sexually active in some way. They may not be 100% sure that their intuition is correct, but they're probably looking for tell-tale signs and won't be surprised when they find out for sure.
2007-03-12 16:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tim B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure they do! Just remember your parents were young once and most likely did many of the things you do. Your father probably suspects it more than your mother, but it makes him sick to think about it so he probably won't say anything to you!
2007-03-12 16:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents aren't as stupid as you think they are. And you have to remember that they were teenagers at one time too. Most likely they probably suspect you are but don't know for sure.
2007-03-12 16:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they could of. =S
Have you noticed perhaps signs of uneasiness?
And I think your parents probably do suspect it considering your 16 and you've been with your bf for 2 years.
2007-03-12 16:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with most parents they know that their children are gonna have sex and the fact that you have been together for 2 years that is kind of a hint......... i knew my parents knew i was having sex when i was with my sons father b4 i ever got pregnant i was with him for a few years and we were always together parents aren't naive they were there b4 so im sure they know you are but dont stop trying to hide it, cause it one thing to suspect your 16yr old daughter is sexually active its quite another to know for sure.
Just make sure you protect yourself and use some sort of birth control and exp. a condom cause thats your best was to protect yourself from contracting an STD and dont always leave it up to him make sure you have your own method of BC
2007-03-12 16:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremysmom05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they pobably do but maybe try to deny it because they don't want to know. I just hope that you are being safe not to be preaching but because 16 is not a good time to get pregnant or an std. Take care
2007-03-12 16:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sunburned:( 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋