theres a girl at my school who i am good friends with but now i have feelings for her and i wanted to ask her out (well ive been wanting to for a while now) but i cant seem to get her alone so i can ask her because shes always with her big group of other friends. she barely ever answers my texts so i cant go somewhere with her to ask her outside of school and she doesnt have a computer either. what can i do now?
2007-03-12 09:20:48 · 23 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think the reason she doesnt text bak sometimes is cos shes out of credit cos sometimes she will answer them.
2007-03-12 09:29:07 · update #1
if it is meant to be then the opportunity will let you, so be patient
2007-03-12 09:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably you could write her a quick note and slip it to her, as she goes off to a class. That way she can think about it in private without one of her other friends looking over her shoulder. If she is a good friend, then even if she is not interested in dating you, she will be flattered. And she may even go out with you if she has harbored a secret crush on you.
Or you could just call her at home at night and ask her out. Surely you know her last name? Her family must have a phone.
2007-03-12 09:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a text...
Ask her to meet you somewhere...
If she doesn't write back...
You go...
Don't send her the text an hour before though...
Make sure that within the time you send it to her and the time for which the appoinment was done she will be able to read it... don't send it to her in your first class and ask her to meet you right after school, she could go the whole day without reading it...
If she doesn't show up, it most likely means she doesn't like you... if she doesn't show up and she eventually apologizes because maybe she really didn't read the message or whatever excuse she gives you, then ask her to meet you again, if she doesn't show up or she rejects you, then wou'll really know she doesn't want something with you...
2007-03-12 09:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Estrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER ONE DAY EVEN WHEN SHE'S WITH HER FRIENDS AND JUST ASK HER TO COME BY UR HOUSE AFTER SCHOOL AND IF SHE ASKS WHY THEN JUST SAY I WANT TO SHOW OUR KNEW DOG OR JUST TO HANG OUT OR PLAY VIDEO GAMES, YA KNOW WHAT I MEAN. SAY U HAVE BEEN MY FRIEND FOR A WHILE BUT I WANT TO TAKE OUR RELATIONSHIP FURTHER. DON'T COME ON TOO STRONG AND COME OUT AND SAY "I WANNA GO OUT WITH U!" IT WOULD RUIN UR FRIENDSHIP IF U SAID IT IN A TEXT MESSAGE OR A EMAIL ANYWAY SO IT DOESN'TMATTER IF SHE HAS A COMPUTER OR ANSWER UR TEXTS. TELL HER THAT IF SHE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY THAT U DONT WANT THINGS TO CHANGE OR BECOME WEIRD OR ANMYTHING AND U STILL WANNNA BE FRIENDS!!!
2007-03-12 09:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok if i was you i definatly would NOT text to her that you would go out with her. For one it is very not confrontational so you might develope distance between you both if you arent near eachother physically. But if you can text her, why don't you just CALL her? Ask her to hang out, just the two of you and maybe you could casually stick the idea in her brain that you like her and then you will be able to sweep her off her feet and ask her out!!! yay
ok well i hope that help =]
2007-03-12 09:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person is best. Walk up to her in the group and ask her to speak with you for a moment. Then take her to a corner away from the prying eyes of her friends and ask.
Though I gotta say, it doesn't look good if she's not texting you back.
2007-03-12 09:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always be bold and just ask her if she wants to go to the cinema infront of her friends it doesn't have to sound as though your asking her out or you could text it her, do you know if she likes you? have you tried phoning her to talk to her it might be easyer? another way would be to ask her in a letter/note and put it in her bag you could always text her later to say it's there if you don't think she'll get it, or you could just ask her if you could have a word with her i'm sure she'll move away from her friends and talk to you , you shouldn't get embarresed 'cos if you don't ask then you don't know. hope you reslove it.
2007-03-12 09:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by CLAIRE BEAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have her phone number, just give her a call. If she doesn't answer, don't take that as a bad thing, leave her a voicemail asking her to call you back, because you have a question for her.
2007-03-12 09:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a box of jaffa cakes and tell her you will do this everyday till she agrees to go out with you! if she dosnt like you then she probably will be as fat as a house before you fall for someone else in a few months!
2007-03-12 09:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by simply stuart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u try calling her i am sure she has a phone! and just ask to take a walk with her even at school before class starts
2007-03-12 09:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always try and organise a party or something and invite her and her group of friends. You can always make your move that way.
2007-03-12 09:24:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋