Okay. There's this boy that I have a big crush on. We're not in ANY of the same classes, and the only time we see each other is lunch.We sit at the same table because we have some of the same friends. When I get around him, I get nervous.Like today for example he sat directly in front of me, you should've seen me, my legs wouldn't stop shaking, I was just that nervous.I couldn't even loook him in his eyes. I lokked away bteh entire time we ate.
He stares at me alot, and when I catch him, he turns away quickly. We don't say anything to each other, but I can feel a connection. Can U give me some tips on how to make the first move? may I remnind you taht I'm extremely shy and nervous around him.And what do I do when I KNOW that he's looking at me? Please help, school is almost out fot the summer, and I want this thing to happen before summer, so when we come back to school, it won't be even more harder for us. Thanx.
2007-03-12 09:20:29 · 8 answers · asked by the_advice_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i don't mean 2 sound rude, but can u all please stop telling me 2 just ask him out, it's not that simple, So can I please get some diff. answers?
2007-03-12 09:32:08 · update #1
Oh yeha and my nervousness won't even let me return his stare(Yes, it's taht bad) I can't do nothin, It's like I just freeze up, and when he gets up, I unfreeze.
2007-03-12 09:34:08 · update #2
Its obvious that he likes you and is just as shy as you are. So, you're going to have to TRY and do this ONE thing and I PROMISE it will work. When you feel him staring at you, slowly lift your head to meet his gaze.....look into his eyes for 3 seconds (that's all you need) then give him a little half smile and slowly lower your gaze. That's IT! He'll know. I promise. Practice in the mirror at home. Do something to make yourself a little more comfortable with the thougth of putting yourself out there. Just calm down, take a few deep breaths, and get your courage up - and think of the end result. Because I PROMISE - that's all you need to do to let him know you're interested.
Good luck!
2007-03-12 09:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by JennR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of the same way around guys that I like, I get extremely shy, and nervous. To make the first move you should use the times her stares at you, you could smile and give him a little wave hi.
2007-03-12 16:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by J Vize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. That is one positive thing you have in your favor OR he would not look away when you catch him staring at you. I would probably, if I were you, because i am very shy as well, try to return his gaze next time he looks, with a small smile...then avert your gaze. This is the mating game...he will know from the sincerity and kindness in your eyes in that brief moment that you are indeed interested...that is all you have to do in my opinion.
2007-03-12 16:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know how u can make the first move but try talking to him it's pretty obvious that he likes u.Thats y he turns his head when u look back.
2007-03-12 16:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about one day when you guys are eating together you start up a conversation and get to know him better and by that way he'll get to know you too. the more you guys chat and hang around they less nervous you'll get. then one day you'll find the courage you need to ask him out.
P.S. i have a feeling he likes you too!!
2007-03-12 16:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how far away are you sitting? ok directly you said....he needs to help you out....relax He wont bite you...see if he will take a walk outside sometime at lunch if theres time
2007-03-12 16:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be assertive, aggressive. Stand up for yourself and tell him what you want. that you like him and it seems that he has interest in you.
2007-03-12 16:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by fred c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out.
2007-03-12 16:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋