How can I know that he's interested this time?? We will probably only hang out around 1x a week...is this enough to prove he really likes me? I dont want to be the one asking to go out on dates so I'm going to wait for him to invite me out..basically what im trying to ask is how can I know that hes actually interested in being serious with me this time...should I play hard to get and have him call me and ask me out instead of it being me doing that (thats what I always used to do). Let me know! just fyi hes 29 and im 23
2007-03-12 09:16:54 · 8 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think taking it slow at 1-2 times a week is a great plenty, keep your schedule open to other things, keep yourself busy.
Still make plenty of time for your friends, let him know that your life DOES NOT revolve around him. Make sure that you do things without him. But don't go and get jealous if he is also going and doing things without you.
In the end gradually work up to the relationship that you both truly want, if it is meant to be then it will be, if not then it won't materialize.
2007-03-12 09:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by tropicalg77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God!
I thought you were still in your teens by your use of grammar & syntax!?!
That being said, maybe you should go ahead and play hard to get for a little while (but not for too long now, do you hear?); I can't (fore)see a problem with that idea, can you?
Let him come to you this time around; do NOT chase him like a lovestruck puppy or anything!
If he's genuinely interested in you, he will call you and arrange to go out on dates, trust me!
Are you worried he might just be after one thing?
Then don't give it to him so quickly next time!
Let him chase you, desire you, lust after you, romance, wine & dine you; in other words, let him experience the beauty, pleasure and excitement of a real courtship for once!
Good luck to you!
2007-03-12 09:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must have been a reason why you guys broke up the first time. why would you want to risk it again? if he was your first love i would understand but there was a reason why you guys didnt work out the first time around. first of all take things slow. see if he lasts. i dont want to sound like he doesnt like you or something but maybe he just got with you because he was horny or something. give things time. if he lasts about 4 months then he really does liek you. please dont rush. and dont make a mistake you will regret later
2007-03-12 09:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's interested, otherwise, you 2 wouldn't be talking and planning to hang out again.
The "time" you spend together shouldn't matter so much as the "quality" of the time spent.
Don't worry about it so much, just enjoy each others' company.
2007-03-12 09:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 days a week and the rest of the week u to should hang out with Ur friends!
2007-03-12 09:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by pamela t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only hang out with him when he wants sex. Don't play hard to get.
2007-03-12 09:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play hard to get you dont bug him and he will think of how bad he wants you and will call.
2007-03-12 09:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problem is still there, that first cause you both to be apart.Then you still have aproblem.you both of to work an your problem first,before talking about going back to gether!
2007-03-12 09:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋