i cheated on my boyfriend with ma mate. my boyfriend dont like him but i liked him n i cheated. my best friend told my boyfriend and me broke up, but we got bk together. now he want me to change it but i dont know how to. i dont know what to do, what to say and what to think. i know its my fault, but why should he suffer because of me. he loves me alot but i dont know what to do. can you help????
2007-03-12 09:16:14 · 22 answers · asked by neelam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i been with hm for two years. so its not easy to get over him. he he does everything for me. he wnt me to change the way i am???
2007-03-12 09:43:28 · update #1
you obviously don't love him... dump him and move on...
2007-03-12 09:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a cheater and now that you have tasted the cheater's life, you will not change...men AND women are the same in that respect, this is plain fact. Do your b/f a big favour and leave him, he can do better than you. Buy yourself a bigger mattress to strap to your back, as i expect you will be very busy from now on, and the one you have on there now is not nearly big enough. The only mistake your b/f made was to get back together with you again, when he should have been thinking "zero tolerance" towards you and your cheating way's. I have all the sympathy in the world for your b/f, none for you.
2007-03-13 06:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying "if you love someone set them free"?
You cheated on a guy who obviously worships the ground you walk on and with somebody he doesn't like, 2 betrayals in one!
Relationships are built on trust and respect and you've broken his trust in you and he's lost respect for you.
Maybe in time he'll learn to trust you, you can only apolgise to him so much.
2 years is not a life time and you've obviously out grown this particular relationship, otherwise you wouldn't have been so quick to cheat on him.
If you cant or wont change then walk away now and let him find somebody who will love and respect him the way he deserves,the funny thing is you menion how much he loves you, but you've not said the same about him, that alone should tell you something!
2007-03-12 19:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just wanted to tickle your kitty out of spite so now, deal with the consequences. That's the problem with women today, they think that they are all that and a bag of chips until somebody throws the bag away. It's women like you that give other women a bad name. Think of yourself as a "place" to put his and his and his and his stuff into. You have no respect for yourself and you are selfish. In fact, I think that you are a cruel vixen.
2007-03-12 16:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by You Can't See Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit togather, discuss it, confess what u hav done. Ask him to forgive u for the last time. If he really loves he will forgive. The start your life afresh. Remember tru love is like a bread(ROTI) which sustains ur life and such little fun is like fast food or CHAAT which u may enjoy for a day or two but ultimately it will make u sick and ur life hell.
2007-03-12 16:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by dubey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was interesting grammar usage but I would say that I am confused.
He wants you to change to what? Do not change who you are because of him.
And the cheating thing, well if you took you back then he cares about you but if he doesnt like you for you then get out.
2007-03-12 16:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie Taliaferro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cheated on your boyfriend you obviously dont love him so leave him go so he can get over you and meet someone who will love him and not cheat on him and you can get on with your like and when you meet the right man you wont need to cheat because he will be everything you need
2007-03-12 16:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by sali s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he chose to forgive you then he has to let go of the past.
If he cant trust you after you have told him that you arent going to cheat then I think you need to say good bye because the relationship isnt going to work.
Why was it your best friend who told him you cheated - does she want to be with him???
2007-03-12 16:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will never get over it and it is your fault.....you are going to have to deal with everything that he says and does because you atre the one that messed up the relationship!
2007-03-12 16:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by boxleaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are,I know in the heart it shouldn't make a dif,if your gona think about Marrien him then.
Run, Forest, Run.
2007-03-12 16:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice "Best Friend" you`ve got there! Put it down to experience and move on!
2007-03-12 16:30:07 · answer #11 · answered by toofy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋