well i have been knowing him for quite sometime and i really like him alot but i think that i am falling in love with him! we had a thing a long time ago. but when i found out he had a girlfriend i backed off, cause i didn't want to disrespect her as a woman. but point being, i didnt hear from him for a pretty long time and all of a sudden he comes back to my life, brought me a rose and we ended up kissing, but when i asked him if he was dating someone he told me that he was still with his girlfriend? i'm feeling confused! help me out!
2007-03-12 09:14:47 · 17 answers · asked by oh_yeah_cinco_de_mayo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have been knowing him for quite sometime and i really like him alot but i think that i am falling in love with him! we had a thing a long time ago. but when i found out he had a girlfriend i backed off, cause i didn't want to disrespect her as a woman. but point being, i didnt hear from him for a pretty long time and all of a sudden he comes back to my life, brought me a rose and we ended up kissing, but when i asked him if he was dating someone he told me that he was still with his girlfriend? i'm feeling confused! help me out! well let me make something clear i am not asking him to leave his girl! and when the 2nd incident had happened i briefly told him i am not up for that! its like me being his mistress! i am not fond about that! but y would he keep looking for me like that? we have never did anything sexual just have kissed!
2007-03-12 09:31:43 · update #1
you should back off just like you did the last time, because he has a girlfriend. that kind of relationship will neve amount to anythin else other than kissing and such.
Perhaps he is using you. you should move on and go on with you life, or he will use you for the rest of your life. beleive, it happends.
2007-03-12 09:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Maria Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the rose part was nice, but you need to question his motivations. He wants everything (both of you) and he wants it now. That's why he told you he was still with the girlfriend. But you want him, so what the heck? Have sex and see if it is as good as it was, then let the best girl win! After all, he was with you before he ever even met her.... Good luck!
2007-03-12 16:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still with his girlfriend.... enough said, if he was interested any anyone else for anything serious wouldn't he break up with his girlfriend, the same girlfriend he had the first time around.
Do you think that maybe SHE is the one and he likes attention from others? or a girl on the side? If he breaks up with her then he is serious, until then keep looking for the guy who is right for you....
2007-03-12 16:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by M B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the right decision the first time -- respect yourself and his current relationship.
Thank him for his time and attention, tell him to make a decision and get back to you when he's done that. Tell him you'd love to see more of him, but that you have too much self-respect to do that while he's involved in another relationship.
2007-03-12 16:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I would do...
You should see if you could take this other woman. Size yourself up with her. If you think you're the better woman for him, then by all means go after him! After all, you can't change the heart!!
But if the other woman looks like she can stomp a mudhole in you, or is otherwise hotter than you... well, it's best to go looking elsewhere...
2007-03-12 16:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if he's making out with you and he still has a girlfriend, it doesn't sound like the kind of guy to get involved with in the first place. the next thing you know, he might be doing the very same thing to you!
2007-03-12 16:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his advances until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. If he'd be willing to cheat on her to date you, he'd more than likely be willing to cheat on you with someone else. Ask him personally whether or not he's still in a relationship before letting him continue his behaviour.
2007-03-12 16:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by MBE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the straight story and let him know You are not for rent. Either he ditches the dame or else stay away from you. Be strong now and avoid discomfort later.
2007-03-12 16:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only need to make 2 points here. 1. would you like it if someone was trying to get your guy? 2. he is already cheating on her,he will do the same to you!
2007-03-12 16:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him until he is single.
Don't get involved with men who have prior attachments.....believe me.
Not only that, but if he is flirting with you while he is in a relationship, you can bet that he will cheat on you too.
2007-03-12 16:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋