all the boys in my year hate me, come 2 think of it so do lots of people. Some ppl pretend 2 but its just cause they want something wat shall i do?
2007-03-12 09:10:22 · 25 answers · asked by Rowan H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe they don't hate you for your looks but for your personality and attitude, that is what is coming through to me anyway!!
2007-03-12 09:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh luv don't think like that. they are not worth knowing if that's how they make you feel. ugly should be taken out of the dictionary because what is ugly to one person is stunning to another and the world would be a dull place if we all liked the same things. So from that i say NO YOU ARE NOT UGLY only shallow insecure people would say you was. confidence is the way to go build on that and you will see the difference. Good Luck and chin up remember wipe the word ugly from your dictionary.
2007-03-12 18:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by LISA uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh who cares what anyone thinks about you.. Just be nice to everyone.. play the game. People are always nice to your face and talk smack behinde your back. Just act like your cool and that you have confidence.. and for the most part people will see you that way. However you display yourself.. people will judge you by that. If you dress like a skank- youll attract assholes and girls will call you that. Sometimes people are just cruel because they are jealous and sometimes they just call out the obvious and what everyone is thinking/seeing. Just don't let it get the best of you, and if its just words dont bother to say anything back, but as soon as someone hits you, Fackkk that bittch up and use her as an example lol...Go for the leader, the one who tauntsyou the most and put that person in their place.
But Violence is not the way hahha.. just sometimes you have to stand up for yourslef even if it seems like everyone is against you.
2007-03-13 12:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never popular in school - mousey hair, flat chest, stick thin legs, studied physics.
Then at university someone told me that I would blossom, I would reach my mid twenties and be beautiful.
Sounds like I'm bragging but I got a lot better looking as I got older. And I had the joy of seeing a lot of the guys I went to school with at my brother's wedding and walking in on the arm of my very handsome partner and them not recognising me until I introduced myself and then them all falling over themselves to buy me a drink.
I know that right now twenty seems a life-time away and it is easy to say 'that'll never happen to me'. But I'll tell you this - boys are attracted to vaccuous bimbos and what 'the media' tells them is pretty. Out there are a lot of real men who make up their own minds on what is attractive and rate things other than blonde hair and big boobs as beautiful. As you get older you will also learn how to dress and do your hair and make up to make the most of your assets and you do have some - trust me!
Try to stick with it - I know its hard but they are only a handful of silly boys and one day they will be kicking themselves!
2007-03-12 16:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not ugly cause God thinks your beautifulinside and out no matter what and if you feel good about yourself than it will show. Your not ugly. Stay with your friends and family and try to shut out all the bad commentsand just pray about it and it might be hard at first but God is just making you sronger so you can handle more everything happens for a reason.
God loves you he even gave his one and only son for you so dont forget it.
2007-03-12 16:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being yourself and forget about what everyone thinks. The only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself, you know your a good person and can be a good friend, they are just missing out by not trying to get to know you. Soon enough they will all start seeing you for who you really are and will change their attitude, probably as you get into high school.
2007-03-12 16:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey they don't hate you because you are ugly they hate you because you are beautiful! Trust me I went through the same thing in high school and now that we are older andmore mature they say oh God I would have killed to date you but I didn't want YOU to KNOW THAT!!! Don't worry just relax and be yourself and there is nothing wrong with hanging out with the older kids or whoever accepts you for you. If someone just wants something let them keep steppin' cause you are too great for that!!
2007-03-12 16:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by sexyafterdark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that supposed good looks can fade, but a truly happy heart, a bright smile and a ton of self confidence, will always attract admirers.
You are who you are, the most unique person in the Universe, and nobody, but nobody is going to lessen that!!
Good Luck!
2007-03-12 16:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by More or less Cosmic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, hon. The real world is nothing like high school - most of the "popular" kids will end up unsuccessful and unhappy, while girls like yourself will blossom and go on to greater things. Don't sweat it - just stick it out, and you'll have tons of fun later on.
2007-03-12 16:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by trillian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop letting ppl run over u. i did but i kind of became a ***** to ppl that try to do it again...
i rather be alone than surrounded by ppl that think of me like that, but now i have someone that loves me and doesnt hate me or use me, and thats enough for me.
2007-03-12 16:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know their are walking on planet earth today 5 people who will if they meet you worship the ground you walk on, and that is a fact, so what ever is happening at the moment, with other people really does not matter, just smile and get on with your life as they are all stuck in a rut
2007-03-12 16:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋