How do I tell?

Question

Help! There is this guy at school, I don't really know if he likes me or not. I think that he does. He goes out of his way to take my stuff in Bio and he randomely buts into my conversations. How do I tell if he likes me? He is a shy guy. Plus there are two other girls in my class that I think like him, but they don't matter. I'm really confused. I know that if he likes me hes not going to come out a say it to me. What do I do? I like him, ( im a freshmen in highschool and not the kind of girl that will ask a guy out )

Answer 1

From what you've described, for a shy guy, it sounds like he's giving you some pretty obvious signals that he DOES like you. If you want to find out for sure, have a small party/get-together at your house and invite him casually. Just say "hey, I'm having a party this weekend at my place, you wanna go?" If he says "yes" - there's your answer. If he says "no, I can't" maybe that's the truth, maybe his family has other plans, so then you say: "That's too bad! I was looking forward to talking to you in a more relaxed enviornment than school. Oh well...." *pause for a moment to give him an opportunity to suggest going to the movies on another night* if he doesn't take the bait, then finish off your sentence with "Some other time maybe" and walk away. This way you have handled yourself with grace and dignity. This is a surefire way to find out for sure if someone likes you. Good luck! I hope he says yes.

P.S. The party doesn't have to be one of those crazy, out of control: "My parents are out of town and I got the key to the liquor cabinet" kind of parties. Just invite your friends and tell them to being friends and you can even put a limit on how many people. Have your parent's buy 5 -7 pizzas and soda, get a couple of DVD's (that both girls AND guys would like) and there's your party/social get-together.

Answer 2

Ok well let's see..... Sounds like he MAY be interested....I think that maybe you should try to talk to him....I mean....ask him to meet you before school starts or after school and ask him what his feelings are for you if he is only interested in being friends or more....High school boys are so confusing...Its been nearly 13 years since I was in high school but I remember how cruel some were and how confusing some were....what I thought could have been a guy being interested in me was only that he was just really friendly....If you need to write down what you want to tell your crush then regroup it and pracitice what you want to say and tell him.....high school is such a difficult time......Please dont be crushed if he doesnt feel the same towards you..You are still WAY too young my dear and have ALONG way to go.... I never had boyfriends in high school and it made me sad but thank the good lord I had friends to surround me to lift me up...dont be pushy..just be yourself...and dont let your peers pressure you into doing anything you dont feel comfortable with ok...
good luck

Answer 3

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Answer 4

ummm.....your too young u should date him give him hints ur interested in him make effort then let him do the rest dont ask him out he can do it but on the real u should try it out and if it dosnt work out dont regert it just make it a lesson learn for the long run kkk then at least u experiance it then u can go party it up after if it dosnt work and experaince that in life too so give it try cuz u dont want to lok bakc and say danm... i should of tryed you dont need game to beat thoses other girls to him just be your self and you will get him :)

Answer 5

Give him your number...Maybe you both need to speak outside of school to feel comfortable.When talking,maybe he'll ask you to catch a movie,dinner,or something...You have to try if you think it's worth a shot! Take your time though...

Good luck!!

Answer 6

Well, if I were you I would give him a hint. After that you can have a friend go and ask to see if he likes anyone. If he does than don't be afraid to go up and talk to him.

Answer 7

he doesn't like you.

you know why? because he doesn't know you.