What do you do when you have a boy friend and then like somebody else as well?

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Answer 1

you should break up with your boyfriend so he can find a girl that will put her time and effort into just him, not him and whoever she likes that day.

Answer 2

be honest with yourself, follow your heart -- is it going to be the current boyfriend or is it time to jump ship. Just remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. It is good to like someone else, but that definition has to be explained to the other person -- Is this person that you like to be kept in the friendship ZONE, or is this person a likely prospect to get the panties one day. These are questions you must answer. And if this person is to remain in the friendship ZONE, does your boyfriend know of him? And , how does he feel about your relationship with your friend. The best thing to do is be honest and be fair to both of them and to yourself. Follow your heart, our first instincts are usually correct.

Answer 3

First, convey it to his interest what he's doing and how it makes you experience. If he keeps to flirt, he's putting out the message that he's finding and that he's available. So the place does that placed you? you're there until he unearths somebody else. you do not choose to be in that place, purely unload him now until now you have greater time invested in him.

Answer 4

It just means that you are still looking for Mr. Right. You need to sit down and really think about what is going on in your life and evaluate your relationship with your BF. If you don't see yourself with him for the rest of your life then why continue to have the relationship with him. We date to find the "one" and if you still haven't found him don't settle, you will kick yourself in the ned. You also need to think about how he will feel if he knows that while you are with him you are actually wanting to be with someone else. Think about how you would feel if he was the one asking the question, be honest with him and with yourself. It is never easy but once you find yourself things become clear. Goodluck!

Answer 5

That means you are not serious about this guy, or you are just looking for trouble. Decide which man you like more and stick with him. I've played this game too many times, and often the reason you like someone else is because there's something wrong with yourself. Just stick to the best guy. That's what I do. If he treats you well, and he doesn't cheat on you, then stay. Please. Don't look for trouble. If you can't control yourself, dump your guy because you could always get him back later if you dump him. If you cheat, it's harder to get him back.

Answer 6

Seems like its still spreading around.. :(.... The only thing I can think of right now is that you'll have to choose: The boyfriend or The boy next door.. If its the B.N.D, just explain why you decided to break up.If he really cared you about, he would understand that if you really love someone, sometimes you got to let them go..

Answer 7

This happens to most of us. It means you aren't ready for a serious relationship. When you do find the right guy for you, no other guy will be of interest to you no matter how cute, or sexy or handsome he is. The one you are with will be the center of your world. No one else will matter in the way. Until then, your mind will wonder. Good luck hun.

Answer 8

You need to decide is your relationship with your boyfriend worth throwing away for a maybe?

Answer 9

that means you don't like him and you will never have a serious relationship and you are just a hoe. face the facts.

Answer 10

You grow up, that's what.