Im so hung up on this guy that i know things will never work out. He doesnt want a serious relationship, but he wants to keep seeing me.
Im not sure how to get over him.
We get on perfectly well, as in we have a laugh and a joke and everything like that.
I don't wan to lose him out of my life as we have become such good friends.
What should i do?
2007-03-12 08:17:13 · 7 answers · asked by lexi-lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Continue to see him but don't I repeat... DON'T sleep with him.
2007-03-12 08:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am actually going through the same thing right now. I want to get over the guy but its so hard because we have become so close and comfortable with each other. It's a tough call for sure! My best advice (which I am trying to take myself) is that you deserve better. If possible stay friends with the guy but keep realistic about it. Know that he is NEVER going to be what you want him to be so stopping any physical contact you have with him now is in your best interested. Maybe taking a week or so to do your own thing and just clear you mind of him and any feelings you may have. Then going back in as a friend.
Good Luck I know its hard!
2007-03-12 15:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get over him? You can't do it unless you want it. If you don't, tell him what you need and what you want. Then decide what needs to be done. If you do want to get over him, I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this, but you have to let go of him in your life. Keeping him around will only hurt. We have all been there.
2007-03-12 15:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he want a relationship when he's getting it all from you with no strings attached. Why should he be serious about you when your'e not serious about yourself to allow him to be free with you.
2007-03-12 15:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on seeing him later on if he sees that he likes u he will ask for something serious and if not that just means that they r not meant to be
2007-03-12 15:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else
he will hurt u in the future
2007-03-12 15:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by talking it out and crying.
crying helps a lot.
2007-03-12 15:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by sadlonelylife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋