It's really hard for me to trust him because he has cheated on previous girlfriends but he says well that was when he was in high school and was out with his friends can I trust that he has grown up in a year and half since high school and would't cheat on me like he says or should I be supisious
2007-03-12 08:16:02 · 14 answers · asked by Brandi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be carefull but also give him a chance, just dont' let it get serious till you get to know him and trust him better
2007-03-12 08:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being able to trust him is putting a thorn in your realtionship. How can you be secure with what the two of you have when you have to look over your shoulders all the time. Maybe you are the right one for him and he's left that life behind. Give him a chance. Work on your relationship one day at a time and not worry about his motives until he gives you reason to suspect him of foulplay. Good luck hun.
2007-03-12 08:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least give him a chance. He hasn't ever done any cheating toward you right? Well then he shouldnt be judged so quickly, and you need to trust him...if you doubt him your relationship wont go anywhere! And trust takes time, so give it some time!! Its always wise to keep a healthy eye out for your man, but dont be paranoid! Sometimes they do change. I did. Good luck!!
2007-03-12 08:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask total strangers if you should trust him......then you shouldn't trust him. You should know your man....Know that his attention span is greater than a 5 year old and you and him should be able to go through this relationship without you having to worry if he is going to be faithful or not. All men are not the same...but the majority of them have attended the same 'dumb a**' male classes so just be careful.
2007-03-12 08:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you catch him cheating trust him. I cheated on boyfriends in high school, but once I started dating my husband, I have been faithful and never plan on cheating on him ever. Don't push him away with suspicion
2007-03-12 08:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him there is no point in being with him. Keep your mind clear and don't look through love colored lenses. Don't nag him about cheating and your issues with his past but don't be stupid and overlook clear signs that he's got someone else. You also must remember that you chose to be with him knowing his past. Give him a chance to change. Now if he does cheat on you I would run and run fast.
2007-03-12 08:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lady A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious, not suspicious. Trust him, show some belief, but dont just walk around with you eyes closed. Keep your eyes open, mind clear and dont let your emotions interfere with your rationality. I know it sounds hard to do so just take small steps...=] good luck! ^_^
2007-03-12 08:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasn't cheated on you dont overreact,but because you know his history you still need to be cautious,2 months is not long to be together so just wait and see how he acts down the road
2007-03-12 08:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say be suspicious just be cautious. Watch his actions and his expressions if something should change then question him. But don't make him feel like he's continuously being watched.
2007-03-12 08:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a relationship...If you REALLY care about that person, you will never let them have TOO much space.. Make sure he updates you on what hes doing&&all... but dont be snoopy && nosey.
Do it like a DETECTIVE WOULD.<3 hehe.
danielleee.
2007-03-12 08:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥DANyELLE. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't put too much of your heart into it. take your time and give him a chance but don't expect him to be faithful. if your whole heart isn't in it...at least for a while...you won't get hurt as bad if something were to happen.
2007-03-12 08:22:51 · answer #11 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋