last year my best friend got a boyfriend..but she didnt really like him so she broke up wit him ever snice then hes been talkin to me...just recently were a couple but we had to break up because we were afraid ppl would say crap about us being togehter...so he said just acted like nothing evr happnd and we've only been friends..i agreed to it but i cant stop thinking about him...HELP!
2007-03-12 08:14:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore this **** what people say it is your heart and his!
youre best friend sud ov moved on and accpet tha fact. no matter what people comment anything even if they dont think it soooo ..
get in ther!!
2007-03-12 08:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ = ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was wrong for you to go out with your best friends boyfriend. How would you feel if she did that to you. No matter if you and that guy still fool around or not, it's not going to last because it was built off a lie. I hate it when women let no good men mess up a good friendship. It always end the same. The women will be heart broken while the men run around giving you a bad reputation and bragging about how easy you were. Have some self respect.
2007-03-12 08:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ending something for the sake of other people normally doesn't make feelings for the person you broke up with go away. It is going to be hard to get over it because it's not like you guys had a fight or hate each other now. I say you try to not think so much about what other people are saying and live your own life! You shouldn't be together with someone for the other people. You should be together because you want to be together no matter what anyone else thinks.
Good luck!
2007-03-12 08:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You sound very young. The thoughts of him will fade. Focus your time and attention toward positive things. If you were really meant to be together then neither one of you would be afraid of what others think. Good luck and I'm sorry you're heart broken.
2007-03-12 08:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out with your friend that used to date him. See if it bothers her (which it shouldn't) since she broke up with him. Then confront him and tell him that if he really cares about you that he should stop acting like a creep and not care about what people think. If he still acts weird, brush him out of your mind and go find somebody who will treat you like you deserve to be treated!
2007-03-12 08:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by KAREN Shirazi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him then go for him! u both feel the same way and if ur thinking about what others will say about ur relationship, u'll be single 4ever coz not everyone will approve of another person's relationship! if he's right for u, dont make the mistake and let him if u truly like him. u'll regret it esp when he's moved on with his life. g.luck
2007-03-12 08:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to talk with your best friend to see if she would have any problems with you two dating. If it will cause a problem then the best thing is to let it go.
2007-03-12 08:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being uncomfortable in this situation is proof that you shouldn't be toghether. It is were meant to be, nothing or no one would stop you two from being together. Good luck hun.
2007-03-12 08:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant do nothing bout that, u cant force him 2 go wit de best thing i can do is be his friend. just keep urself occupied so u wont think bout him but as time goes u will think bout him less and less.
2007-03-12 08:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Babygurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow what u r feeling. Who cares what people thing. If u both have deep feelings for each other then go for it.
2007-03-12 08:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by JLC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋