ok so, I am a really shy guy, and i like this girl in my study hall. I really want to get to know her better, but everytime, I will be confident and i'lll go into study hall, and I can't even pick my head up im so nervous...I really like her, and I have been told by numerous girls that I am a really sweat, dependable guy, and that I would be a great boyfriend to a lucky girl. But the problem is I am too shy to talk witht this girl....So do girls like shy guys like me???
2007-03-12
08:11:30
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➔ Singles & Dating
I meanI am too shy to even talk to her, although I have talked to her online...but inperson I freeze up, even if its just saying hi
2007-03-12
08:16:54 ·
update #1
Some girls like shy guys, but others (like me) like adventurous not scared to say what's on their mind type of guys. One of the reasons some girls like shy guys is because they're not likely to cheat on you. If you're too shy to ask this girl out, try to be friends first. Spark up a conversation. Try to find similiar interests. And most importantly, be yourself!
2007-03-12 08:17:44
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answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5
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There's a difference between being shy and being too shy. She might not get that you like her if you don't make some sort of move. You don't have to ask her out right away, but you should definitely talk to her a little bit. Otherwise she might think that you can't stand her.
2007-03-12 15:14:43
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answered by mikah_smiles 7
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I am shy and have been most of my life , but now at 33 i find ease with women after being married for 6 years ....Never even had a sister was all boys in my family , my mother died at a young age In high school i was so shy i never even tried really. I was tormented by it. I was a star foot ball player and blessed with some handsome features and a strong desire for the ladies , i often found relief at drunken parties where i would had one night stands with these strange creatures that i loved so much. After completing high schoo.l would hang out at the clubs inspite of my shyness i remaned moderatly sexualy active . Beer soon became a crutch that i struggle with to this day. I meet an agressive girl when i was 20 , so the ice was broken rather quickly , i found somthing better than sex that i had always wanted since i am a rather deep person , problem was she was an needless jealous phycho. I was in love but after two years of great sex , freindship and complete loyalty , on my part. it ended , She started to become controling and would attack me physicaly. I may have been shy and pussy whooped , but i am a dominate type male , shy or not i left her crazy ***! I went 4 or 5 with out anouther serrious relationship. Only to be singled out by anouther woman of the same nature. I was less shy at this time and to be honest a little hard up . I quickly picked up on her games , but i was stupid enuff to play the game for a year and after seeing the relationship was sinceless i ended it. She had also became violent and cutt me with a nife on day.. bad luck .with women ?. After to failed relationships i became less of a nice guy and more of a like me or leave type. I no longer gave a cared and stayed drunk for a while . I got with a nice girl at a party one night and i could not get shake her fast enuff ....she was in love , and spoiled me royaly somthing i had never had. Problem i was not love and...She soon was with child . I married her for my sons sake. It was the right thing to do. Didnt want no boy of mine to be a bastard. One year later my second son was born. We have been married now for 6 years and she no longer loves me and i her...i live for the love of my children and she is a stay at home mom. I have been faithful to my wife as a matter of respect for her and my boys...and we have a very active sex life still. But i often feel lonley and fantasize about true love . Somtimes i think if i live long enuff i may find my true love on day when i am about 80..lol.....Shyness must be controled and taken care of early and watch out for overly aggressive women , they can spot u a mile away. (sorry spell check is not working today?) got to go take of your self.
2007-03-12 16:18:15
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answered by Fabion MacDavid 1
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You should just write a not to her in study hall. Ask her if she likes shy guys, and tell her that's why you havn't talked to her outright.
Writing notes doesn't really involve talking, or confronting the person, to their face anyways, so you should be in the good with that.
And if she does want to talk to you, just be yourself, shy or not, and be cool about it.
2007-03-12 15:18:15
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answered by Caiti 4
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Girls love shy guys because shy guys respect their woman, shy guys know what's best and are usually the more mature types of males their can ever be. And it doesn't really matter anyways because what matters is that she likes you for who you are!
2007-03-12 15:15:32
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answered by phantomdream 2
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I think shy guys are kinda cute, but I don't want to be the one to make the first move. It's way sexier and manlier (is that a word? lol) if the guy steps up and makes the first move.
2007-03-12 15:18:24
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answered by ~ <3 ~ 1
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I do!!! I wish i knew more guys like you---am tired of guys that think they're the $*** Ask her out. What's there to lose? well rejection, but that's life. If you don't ask her out, you'll miss out on the chance of finding out if she's your one and only true love.
2007-03-12 15:25:50
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answered by Ghanaian Princess 4
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I like shy guys!
2007-03-12 15:14:16
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answered by Jen-Jen 6
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Shy as in coy? yes. Shy as in has a problem in social situations? no.
2007-03-12 15:14:32
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answered by bridgemr8 1
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depend on, if you want to set a relationship with this girl, it is necessary for u to try to change, just say hello to her, then may be u find it ,it is easy for u to talk to her.
2007-03-12 15:22:24
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answered by Pretty Girl 4
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