2007-03-12 08:09:21 · 28 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheat on her with her best friend...or one of her close friends....or someone she really hates, that usually does the trick.
2007-03-12 08:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a toughy. I've been dealing with it myself. Although part of you probably wants to go confront her, call her a s l u t and various other names, this will not hurt it like you really want to. The best thing is to embarrass her in front of her friends, your friends, possibly her family. Photos and videos work great. Youtube is the best.
Confronting her when you guys are alone will just allow her to tell her friends and family her version to everything. My ex turned me into a drunk (i only get drunk around my fraternity brothers at parties and at weddings) abusive (i never laid a finger in anger on her or even threatened her) cheating disease carrying (she's the one that had the STDs, all my tests were clean by 3 different doctors) a s s hole. But since most of her friends know me better than that her lies put her in worse shape.
2007-03-12 15:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by lil_puppydog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her the opportunity to come clean otherwise if you know for 100% that she cheated on you then play dumb right along with her and find the guy that she cheatede on you with and have him come to the home. She will drop dead in the floor. I know that's drastic but a good one.
A more reasonable way to deal with is just up and leave her and she'll be wondering why and when she's ready to confess let her know that you already knew and that there's no way that she loved or respected you like she said she did.
Whatever you do don't cheat on her it'll only make you look crazy doing evil for evil. just let her go she's no good.
2007-03-12 15:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Looking to get back at her will only create a vicious circle that will never end! Your best bet is to make a decision based on your findings. She has cheated and you know; you can either confront her and work it out or leave her. It is as simple as that! Don't bite your nails, lose sleep over it or continue looking like a fool in her eyes!
2007-03-12 15:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Book a table at a very nice-but expensive restaurant. Have a sumptuous meal,wine-really enjoy it. Order pudding and/or coffee-and as you wait for it to arrive-tell her that you know she's been cheating on you,and you don't waste your time with lying,cheating tarts (or whatever pronoun you prefer to use to describe her)-all said quietly and calmly,of course. Then walk out-leaving her there alone-and having to face the expensive bill for the evening. She won't forget that in a hurry!
2007-03-12 15:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her. As simple as that. Gather up your stuff and go. It will only get worse, and she will cheat again and again. If you stay with her you are denigrating your worth as a man and a human being. You are worthy of trust and respect. She is not giving these basic things. So put on your hat, toss a nod to the fates, and walk away. You will keep your self respect and live to love another day. Good luck, man.
2007-03-12 15:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you know then ditch her there and then. Might be a good call to take her somewhere for a meal and leave her with the bill or take her for a drive then get her out of the car and then leave her to get herself home. Don't leave her anywhere too remote or dangerous though.
2007-03-12 15:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by ANF 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she has cheated on u then get her best pal and if she's into u then spend the night with her, sure ur girl will hate you but she didnt love u that much that she cheated on u in the 1st place
2007-03-12 15:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by twa_gers 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to a mirror, take a long hard look at yourself and think about how you have behaved towards her. Now ask youself why she might hav cheated. Cheating isn't about sex, it's about emotional fulfillment, you weren't fulfilling her needs and so she looked elsewhere. You can accept your part of the blame and maybe still have a girlfriend this time next week or you can heep more rubbish on her and say 'goodbye' - up to you.
2007-03-12 15:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I heard about this guy who was very popular, who had an equally attractive and popular girlfriend. The girl started trying to make him jealous, so he decided to humiliate her.
At the last minute, he cancelled his date with her to an important dance, but one he knew she would attend anyway.
He hired the fattest, most low class prostitute he could find. All the guys thought it was hilarious, but the girl was embarrassed to death, because he was dancing with the prostitute all night, while she sat on the sidelines.
2007-03-14 13:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by pachl@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have someone you know bump into her at a bar (someone good looking) and give her his number and see if she calls.
Of course, she will call, so you need to buy one of those throw away phones and let it be your # she actually calls. Set her up and see if she takes the bait-have a little fun with this *****.
2007-03-14 02:15:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋