It turns me on alot when my boyfriend says things like "Do it now! Because I said so! Come here", etc.. If I mouth off or disobey, he slaps my rear or tugs on my hair. He winks or grins, looking into my eyes seductively. That way I know he's roleplaying. He would never hit me in an abusive manner or in aanger. It's all just sexual. But why do I like it so much?
2007-03-12 08:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by J Doe 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because its fun to give over power to someone else. i am in a position of power in my day job, all day long...so when i "Cut loose" in private, its enjoyable to be at someone else's whim, especially when its a sexual one. its not an every-time thing, but on occasion, i love to "Surrender" and be submissive.
run with it, enjoy it.
2007-03-12 08:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by jmaximus12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your the only one that likes it. As a matter of fact I think a lot of women do...I do too! My fiance is not abusive at all, and never laid a hand on anyone, but I do enjoy being submissive. I think it's just something that really turns us on, and as long as we know they are roleplaying and they like it too....more power to us!
2007-03-12 08:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do we have the sexual urges that we have? I don't know, but it sure makes for kinky sex.
Being submissive is about having no responsibility and knowing that if you get in trouble you'll enjoy the punnishment. Its also about giving. What more could you give? It is really a sweet surrender. What could a Master give in return to match that?
2007-03-12 08:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way, I love when my fiance will grab ahold of my hair and put my face right where she wants it and tells me to "eat it"
2007-03-12 10:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to be submissive too! don't think too much about it, just enjoy!
2007-03-12 08:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Piggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. Where can I find a woman like you? You are awesome.
2007-03-12 08:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno. everyone is different. i like dirty talk and spankings too!!
2007-03-12 08:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Essie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋