ok. i love my boyfriend a lot. and he loves me A LOT. and i feel he loves me more than i love him. i really dont know what to do on this one. i like another guy, who is reaaalllllyyy hot, and he knows i like him. the major problem is, the guy that i like has a big mouth, and hes good friends with my boyfriend. but im not ready to break it off with my bf yet, cuz i love him, alot. but what to do about this other guy!!?!?
2007-03-12 07:44:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was in the same position as u
im 17 my guys 21
i was so crazy about anotha guy who had everything my guy didnt have and like a idiot i jumped away from my guy and made a big mistake
seriously ignore that other guy
i wish i had
it will be a huge mistake!
2007-03-12 07:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by eva d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your boyfriend, this shouldn't be hard at all. Just think about it. Does the other guy have anything to offer other than just being "HOT" to offer you? Can he offer you more than you boyfriend can? Is it worth losing your boyfriend over some eye candy? Do you know that by the other guy knowing you like him and that he's good friends with your boyfriend will make you look like a ***! You said yourself that he has a big mouth. How do you know this hasn't got back to your boyfriend yet? They may be just waiting on you to make your move so you can be known as the Town H**. Please don't mess up a good thing because you see a guy that's "Hotter" than the person who loves you. If this guy is friends with your boyfriend and still wants anything to do with you, that's the number 1 sign that he's no good. I'm not tring to be arrogant, I'm just tring to help you save you reputation. It's all about self respect.
2007-03-12 14:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your bf than a hot guy isn't going to pull you away.
It's when you start to obsess over the hot guy that this becomes a problem.
What is is about the other guy that makes him hot? His looks? The way he does something?
The guy may be hot but he might be a jerk as well. Stick to your bf and let the fantasy take place inbetween the sheets. If you know what I mean.
2007-03-12 15:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you should break it off and keep going from one hot guy to another. You said that you love your BF but not ready to break it off yet? doesn't make sence to me. If you love him then you shouldn't be waiting for the YET day to come. You must not love him enough if you are ready to think about being with someone else especially if it's your best friends friend. Think about your relationship with your currant BF.........he may deserve better than you. What if he liked one of your GF and wasn't ready to break it off with you YET?
2007-03-12 14:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by chazzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you love your bf but you like a guy cause he's really hot......hmmm.......If you are truely in love then it shouldn't be an issue how hot the guy is. If it is just puppy love, then you need to just not take things so seriously.
Easy solution, don't see and talk to this other guy. Take him out of the equation.
2007-03-12 14:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by lil_puppydog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about the big mouth punk
u only think he's hot it's a normal feeling even though u love ur bf
but dont do something you'll regret that guy u like is a guy that's good for 1 night n nothing else
2007-03-12 14:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by axlrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your current bf, quit thinkin about messin around behind his back. How would you feel if he traded you for someone he thought was "really hot", or worse yet if he snuck behind your back with someone that didn't have a "big mouth" and you found out after months? Then what?
2007-03-12 14:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mark B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with the one you love. Love is forever. A crush will fade. But honestly? if you like both guys, and are wanting both, then you dont love either. I mean, if you really loved this guy, then you wouldn't even think of another guy like that
2007-03-12 15:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told once not to leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like is going to leave for the one they love think hard before you make up your mind
2007-03-12 14:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by mz.atl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your boyfriend.
2007-03-12 14:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋