I MET THIS GUY IN NOVEMBER THROUGH MY SISTER. WE HAVENT MET IN PERSON YET BECAUSE HE IS IN COLLEGE IN OREGON. BUT WE WRITE AND TALK ON THE PHONE. I AM REALLY STARTING TO FALL FOR HIM BUT MY GUY FRIEND TELLS ME EVEN THOUGH HE IS SAYING ALL THESE NICE THINGS AND (ALSO HE INVITED ME ON A TRIP TO ALL THESE DIFFERENTS STATES WITH HIS PARENTS WE WOULD FISH CAMP PARASELLING JET SKIING AND MORE HE OFFERED TO PAY MY WAY) THAT ALL HE WANTS IS SEX. SO I DONT KNOW IF IT IS MORE OR NOT ON HIS PART. I DONT WANT TO GET HURT THOUGH AND ALSO HE WRITES TO ME ALOT AND EVEN MADE ME A VALENTINES DAY CARD. I THOUGHT WHAT GUY WOULD DO ALL THIS AND INVITE YOU ON A TRIP HIS MONEY AND NOT REALLY LIKE ME. YOU KNOW? PLEASE BE HONEST! ALSO HE HAS TALKED ABOUT THE FUTURE AND IF WE FELL IN LOVE FOR ME TO MOVE IN WITH HIM. BUT STILL...IS HE JUST TELLING ME WHAT I WANT TO HEAR?
2007-03-12 07:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by incubusgirl09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will never know until you take a chance. No one wants to get their heart broken but in life you have to know there is no sweet without the sour. You wont know until you try. If he just wants sex you'll know it when your together. He could be a jerk with a lot of time on his hands or your future husband you'll never know til you give it a go. GL and hope all turns out well for you
Chas
2007-03-12 07:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how you can really "fall" for some one in the way that you are describing with out actually seeing him. He could be really sincere about all the things in which he is telling you but when you are actually face-to-face things can be different are you talking about having sex? if you are then yes he wants to have sex but if you are not including that in your conversation he probably still wants it but he also wants to build a relationship. Some men fell that they need to treat you to a good time inorder for a female to feel like they owe them something (i.e. he pay your way so you feel guilty and give him what he wants - sex) but really it does not matter what he wants if you arent ready only time will tell if he is telling the truth I am very optimistic I see the good until you give me a reason not to. what kind of person are you?
2007-03-12 07:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Friday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have to meet him and spend time with him to be able to tell. don't have sex with him the first time you two actually meet and if he is still interested than i'd say he may just be an awesome guy....
2007-03-12 07:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he hasn't really seen you, right?so sex can't be the only reason why he wants you.he feels the same way you do.trust me.
2007-03-12 07:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP SHOUTING!!!!
Yes, you are probably being given a line of crap.
2007-03-12 07:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋