My boyfriend and i just broke up. It was both ours first long term relationship (2 1/2 Years) I feel like there is nothing better and hes the one i want to be with. He thinks he should be single for a while. I dont know what to do because i am absolutely heartbroken and i dont want to wait around for him . What should i do?
2007-03-12 07:03:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only time will tell, I know you don't want to hear that, but it's the truth. Nobody on this site will be able to tell you this right answer to this question, you have to figure it out on your own. Just give it time, and if wasn't meant to be, you might actually be happier with someone else. Just hang in there, you are still young.
2007-03-12 07:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him, it's time for you to move on. He has spoken loud & clear, he wants to be single. Why would you want to be with someone who clearly says he doesn't want to be around? You deserve someone who wantsto be with you because HE wants it, not just you.
a first relationship almost never works out. Usually because people grow apart, they grwo differently, and it is only one of many experiences you will have in life. This was a good one, a reasonable time together, but it's a solid experience as well for your future relationships.
I figure as you get older, go to different schools, and meet many different people, you will find many great guys to meet, date, kiss, whatever! You are young, smart, and have a wonderful heart. The world is your oyster as they say, get this guy out of your system and enjoy your life!
Best of luck, and enjoy your singlehood!
2007-03-12 07:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was stuck in your exact same situation 2 years ago, 2 1/2 yr relationship, girlfriend just wanted to be apart because the "timing was off," but really, it's just another saying for I don't want to be with you RIGHT NOW, maybe later. I was so heartbroken, I just went wild for 2-3 months, but really, if they want to move on, we should too
2007-03-12 07:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you should not wait around because what if he were to find somebody, then what are you going to do?? Wait intill they break up????? NO, you should move on, trust me i know is so hard because i was in a 4 year relationship and is one of the hardest thing to do especially when is your first serious relationship.
If you dont move on, you will reagret it later, trust me on that one, is better you move on since he is willing to do it. Is sad but true.
2007-03-12 07:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you HAVE to do is date other people because that is what he is going to do. If it was meant to be, you will get back together. Have fun with your friends and new dates and try and forget about it for a while. If it's really love, it will withstand everything else and you two will eventually be back together, maybe forever next time.
Be patient, this could take years but sometimes we have to learn lessons in love before we figure it all out.
2007-03-12 07:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things take a turn especially when you aren't expecting or looking for it. Learn how to be single, enjoy your friends and make new friends.
Don't wait for the guy, but don't run out and start dating right away.
Good Luck!
2007-03-12 07:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself do you want him back if you do then wait give him some space to think about what he is doing but if you don't want to wait then go out and have fun because there are other guys out there for you he is not there only guy here on this earth just think about do you willy want to be with him for the rest of your life does he do you good and does he willy love you if so then wait but if you don't give him space believe you will lose him give him space and he will come back to you.
2007-03-12 07:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by ANGELSOUL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend married her first long-term boyfriend, and they're doing fantastic! they dated for almost four years, and finally got married a while back :D they're doing great.
but my other best friend, dated her boyfriend for two years, broke up for a month, he dated other people and she sat around and cried, he came back to a month later and they've been together four years now & live together while she goes to college full time.
all im saying is, if you love him and theres no one else out there, wait, but dont wait around crying, have fun, hang out with your friends, whats meant to be will always find its way. (just like my friend #2's bf found his way back to her)
2007-03-12 07:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Alisha 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You kind of answered your own question. Don't wait around, because it sounds like he's not. You'll only be prolonging the process of get over him.
2007-03-12 07:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My younger sister married her first boyfriend (high school sweetheart), 21 years ago. They're still married and quite happy.
2007-03-12 07:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋