Have you ever had a dream in which you cheated on the one that you are with, & you had no control over the dream, but in the dream it felt real & you were made to like it in the dream.
But when you woke up, you were like, what happened? I don't even like that girl/guy!
Do you ever tell your partner if you do this, & do you ever feel bad for it?
Sometimes if it happens, you can't control what you dream, & it feels awful to have to have a dream like this, even though you know you have no hots for this person in the dream, cause your happy already, right?
2007-03-12 07:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, yea! I have recurring dreams of being with Matthew McConnaughey and Kevin Costner. When I woke from them, I was disappointed!!! They are called fantasies and you know it can and will NEVER happen. All the same, my fiance is extremely jealous of it.
2007-03-12 07:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why our minds like to be are worst enemy sometimes. Did you feel bad when you woke up? like...heavy, and sad? I've experienced this before. I couldn't make any sense of this. it's odd, It goes away though. And you really shouldn't worry seeing as how it was subconscious and don't read too much into it. after all it was just a dream, which is actually a good thing. If you do feel any guilt it should be minimal, don't forget you are also human.
2007-03-12 07:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy dreams like you describe on occasion, but I feel it would be unfair to the person in my dream to reveal the same to my significant other. I don't think I'd want my husband or boyfriend to share the same with me. It would only lead to needless suspicious. We can't control our dreams as you pointed out. I also don't feel any guilt about such dreams--it's not behavior we are responsible for and we couldn't rectify it anyway. The mind plays strange tricks sometimes. Don't worry about it!
2007-03-12 07:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dreams have different meanings and having cheated on ur lover in a dream definately doesn'n mean there is something going on between you and ur partner in the dream but yes, i have had a lot of dreams like that
2007-03-12 07:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations you are perfectly normal. and Never, ever tell your partner about dreams like this. Some things are best left unsaid and this is one of them.
2007-03-12 07:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by felippie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it replaced into an quite sexual, beautiful dream & my sweetheart had the staring place, - she got here in a million/2 way by it & baseball batted my kneecaps She's a passionate woman what can i say
2016-12-14 17:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by raper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋