I've read some posts on here and I've noticed women are alot more into having sex more frequently than men. In my case, I'm always the initiator. Why are some guys so preoccupied by other things (like TV/Movies) than having sex?
2007-03-12 06:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on the guy...the stereotype of most men is that sex is all they want and all they think about, however anyone who's ever known a man knows that for the vast majority, that's not the case.
People have different sex drives and they may go up and down during their life...so depending on who you are with and where your sex drive is, you may desire sex more or less than your partner and over time (if you two are together long enough) the other person may want it more, or you may be in sync for a while.
Also...for some people (men and women) their drive seems to diminish a bit when they know they can have it just about any time...part of the appeal for some, is having to work to get it (challenge).
2007-03-12 06:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real?
What posts have you been reading??
I have been reading posts all the time and I can guarantee you that about 80% of the time is guys asking about the wife or the girlfriend not wanting to have sex all the time, or the girl asking if all guys are always thinking about sex all the time.
And in general, guys are the one thinking about sex or something close to it 24/7. It is a surprise to see a girl like that, and probably a gift from God for whoever you decide to share your life with… LOL.
But is true, you will find some guys that even if they used to be very sexual and thinking about it all the time, later on they might put down sex into a second or lower level as they mature and other things become priorities, like taking care of the kids, the house, the bills, the cars, the job, etc.
And sadly, women usually go the other way around, and as they mature, sex become a more important thing and priority in their life.
But, and this is the key to most relations, nature tends to balance itself, and those that are balanced are the ones that survive. So it is always good to be somewhere in the middle and not be at the extremes.
Hopefully you will be ok in your relation(s) and will be able to come up with a “balanced equation”.
Too much sex could be as bad or worse than no sex. But don’t forget, you have a good weapon with you: you are a woman. And unless your man has some kind of a problem, he will not be able to resist you ;)
Good luck and have fun!
2007-03-12 07:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I think it's a myth, perpetuating women as sexaully inexperienced, virgin-like creatures who just 'lie back and think of England'. It's a stupid notion because there is no reason why women shouldn't enjoy sex, and lots of women do have a higher than 'average' sex drive.
I am much more interested in sex than my fiancé is...but I was rather suprised at this fact initially. I think you always want what you can't have-if he was a horny get I'd probably be less bothered about it. I definately think Hollywood perpertuates this 'men think about sex every 3 seconds' thing.
2007-03-12 07:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by potterfaerie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like this. You know when you got a itch in your ear and use your finger to itch it ? After you are done what feels better, you ear or your finger ? It's true women like sex better than men. If playing other things rather than wanting to have sex with you is the case maybe you should spice it up a bit. Get some toys or something and he just might be more willing.
2007-03-12 06:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by felippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know that that's how ''Society translates'' what you're explaining right here in any respect! I even ought to assert that I actually have not in any respect ever seen there's a distinction in the genders once you write > "respect adult men" vs. "respect women human beings". To me that's ''respect'' of or in the route of yet another human being ...regardless of their gender. i have yet to have a communicate with ''Society'' or listen speech given by ability of it. ~ and that i'm no longer being flippant right here, I basically have not address what 'Society' easily thinks, basically what diverse segments of it look to assert about it very a lot ~ oftentimes with very a lot of self activity. Sash.
2016-12-01 21:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this goes both ways, Jenna. and it can vary between the man and woman in a couple on a regular basis. Our urges guide us, sexually, and sometimes those urges are stronger than others. its obviously ideal when both partner's sex drives and desires match up at the same time, but that often isn't the case.
now in a relationship that is totally one-sided (1 person initiaties all the time), those people are a poor match sexually. you need to find someone who's desires equal your own, unless you are okay with infrequent sex.
2007-03-12 06:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by jmaximus12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kind of men you have being seeing, but I have never seen a man that wasn't ready all times, any time, just hit that bed and men stay ready. When 90 their they still want to be ready but that time they have on their mind 24/7 but they have lost the gitty up, gitty up.
2007-03-12 07:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have very task specific minds. If they are doing one thing it can be very difficult for them to switch gears to something else. Even sex.
Guess what...not all men are the same. Weird eh?
2007-03-12 06:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never met a guy that was less into sex than their wife/girlfriend. If I even mention it my husband is ready to go. I think they are online horndogs that don't really want it as much as they say they do...
2007-03-12 06:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - I think you've been hanging out with the wrong guys - I'd jump your bones in a heartbeat!
2007-03-12 07:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋