When you hurt a man.. does it take them a while to come back around??? No stupid answers.. plz
2007-03-12 06:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hurt him how? Anyway, sometimes they take a while to come back around because of an ego thing or what mine does is he actually gets spiteful back or even sleeps it off. Either way, after a while we talk about it and decide it's not worth the fight.
2007-03-12 06:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it depends on the degree of the hurt sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes they never come back. What women have a hard time understanding is in certain areas we are just like you we have feelings. The other thing is the word SORRY sometimes its said to make the person at fault feel better then the person your saying it to. What ever you did to hurt this person hopefully your learned by it and don't make the same mistake. Maybe it didn't cost you a friend maybe it did.
2007-03-12 07:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by hurting a man. It just depends on what you do, and why you want them to come back around. Do you want to continue a relationship or just be friends?
2007-03-12 06:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every situation is different but I'll say this if he was really in love with you and you hurt him then you may have turned a good guy bad. Some men, when they have been hurt try to protect themselves form being hurt agian and by doing so they may end up hurting other women to prevent their hearts from being broken again. On the other hand some me tend not to trust woman again and may have their guards up when they are in relationships with other woman. Let me say that I'm not trying to judge you but I hope that you're not responsible for turning a good guy bad.
2007-03-12 06:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what kind of man he is, and what you did to hurt him. If you cheated on him, that may make him look at you as being cheap or slutty.
Be careful, he may just have been looking for an "easy out", which you just may have given him, by doing whatever it is you did.
2007-03-12 06:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they do come around, it takes them a very long time. But it depends on how u hurt them too.
2007-03-12 07:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Snow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it takes them really long, it was the opposite for me, and it took me like three months, so it all depends on the gravity of the situation.
2007-03-12 06:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who in the hell cares? He probably deserved it anyways. And if he didn't, he would have ended up hurting someone else later on down the line, so he had it coming eventually anyway.
2007-03-12 06:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋