ok me and my friend are havn a lil persay fight cuz i guess when im with my bf i leave her for him...i dont mean to and im trying to fix it! but then she always ditches me 4 her bf also....and its a little weird...well i really wanna chill with him this weekend but i did last weekend since she couldnt come over....i really wanna chill w/ him this weekend cuz its a special weekend for us but i also want my friend to be happy...what should i do? should i chill with friend or bf???
2007-03-12 06:42:34 · 19 answers · asked by then she killed my brain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can your bf ,friend and her bf all do something together? That would be cool if possible. If not why can't you spend sometime with both of them? either together or at different times this weekend. This is often a hard situation so do what you can to make all happy just remember she may be your friend long after you have changed bf's.
2007-03-12 06:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Joyce S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if she is a REAL friend, she would understand that there are differances between her and him. That there are things he does for you, that she doesn't. Those things make you feel good. She knows what that is like or she wouldn't leave you for her BF too. She just wants it both ways. She wants to be able to hang with her BF whenever she wants, and hang with you when he isnt avaliable or busy. It doesnt work that way and a true friend would see that. Good luck.
2007-03-12 06:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe arrange to see them both?
If it's possible.
For example go shopping or to the cinema with your friend...spend some quality time with her.
And then explain that its a special weekend for you and your boyfriend and that you'd like to see him in the evening or later that day.
I'm sure she will understand..and will appreciate that you put her first and told her the truth.
Hope everything goes okay :)
xx
2007-03-12 06:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could have like u and ure bf and her and her bf go out do dinner and a movie and or just the movie together that would make her happy
2007-03-12 06:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by chevy man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I figure like his if she is a true friend she will understand , since she goes out with hers , some time why dont you all go out together some time .
2007-03-12 06:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf if it is a special weekend for ya your friend will understand
2007-03-12 06:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave it alone, because your going to end up doing something you regret, hes going to cheat, and then your screwed so i wouldn't do anything.... If you do just admit you like him and then go off with him after he broke up with your friend, and your friend probably wont be your friend after all of this
2007-03-12 06:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last time I checked the weekend consists of 2 days....one day for him, one day for her, and find some time for yourself
2007-03-12 06:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your real friends won't make you choose between one relationship and another.
Tell your friend to be cool and do what you want to do. Life is too short to be too concerned about others.
2007-03-12 06:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has some abandonment issues. Maybe she should see a counselor? You could always do a double date.
2007-03-12 06:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by Doug K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋