i've been with my girlfriend 2 years. We have both been completly faithful and there is nothing not to like about her. other than the bi polar. But I'm getting tired of her and I don't want to. With each passing day I find it harder to show affection and enjoy her company and her touch.
i don't want this to happen and I need a turnaround
Suggestions?
2007-03-12 06:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by dh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go back to basics. Remember what it was like when you first started dating? What kinds of things did you do? Did you go to dinner and a movie every Friday night? Did you take long walks together? Try to recreate the time you spent together that made you fall in love with her in the first place.
You should remember that two years is a significant amount of time. As much as you may not want to admit it, it's entirely possible that you two have just grown apart. Maybe it's time it move on.
Best of luck.
2007-03-12 06:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you interact with her as a woman or a woman with bi-polar disorder? You need to know all about her disorder so that you can understand better.
If she has been diagnosed, she is has probably been prescribed medication. If the meds work, she will be fine and level out. If not, you will never know where she's at. That can drive you crazy. Bi-polar people tend to want to get off the meds as soon as they start working.
My ex-wife is bi-polar, but she to her credit controls the disease and not the other way around. She wrote a novelization of her experience. Would you be interested in reading it?
What exactly is turning you off? Answering that will get you the suggestion you seek.
2007-03-12 13:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to try to work on your relationship as you have stated that you did not want to lose your girlfriend, she is bi polar and sometimes that is a hard thing to deal with, but you need to your best understand her condition and its causes. It will be hard but if you are willing to work on it then in the end all the hard work and sweat was worth it, she might be bi polar but she is not stupid. Be open minded, and keep communicating with her.
2007-03-12 13:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you younger than 25. Sounds like your a teenager. If so, find a new girlfriend. And then break up with the one your with. Tell her the same thing you said in the question.
2007-03-12 13:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Gorman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away! It may seem cold, but bi-polar disorder is something that not only her, but you will sufer with. Things will get worst. I have family members that are bi-polar, and I know their partners suffer very much, aswell as their kids.
2007-03-12 13:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by M G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably feeling that everything is starting to become a routine. Why don't you do something out of the ordinary? Engage in activities you don't normally do. You know, to rekindle the flame (LOL...that's kinda deep).
2007-03-12 13:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by praeclarus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may have just gone to the point where you feel that she is not the right one for you. Has anything happened recently? Do you spend too much time with her and need your space?
2007-03-12 13:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes this happens but u have to go with the flow and let it take u so i say if u have no more feeling for her then dump her it might be hard but move on
2007-03-12 13:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Adrienne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes separations can help a situation like this. absense makes the heart grow fonder :)
2007-03-12 14:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋