last year i had a meeting at work,which specified personal boundaries at work, this was awful but im confused,the boss who i like very much,seems to always flirt with me,
recently ive had to work with him more and involves him sitting next to me to read things, hes always brushing hands with me,and not pulling away,at first i thought it was just accidental but always seems to happen lots, im always the one to slowly and as natuaraly as possible pull away and do something with my hand,we both always keep our hands on the table too.
when i make jokes at college, i catch him laughing to himself,if im joking about. im confused though because hes the tutor,not much older than me, but there just seems to be chemistry, i wonder is it just me reading into things too much,and is this hand touching,even if its the little finger,just me and my imagination,because i like him.
2007-03-12 06:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by caseydaisey1000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know that hes conciously keeping work boundaries,which makes it mor difficult,for me,and i guess him too
2007-03-14 06:34:37 · update #1
if he shows interest or wants to talk to you and get to know you, yes
2007-03-12 06:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's just maybe office flirting which men get off on. Don't waste your time here, he probably does it to everyone. If he is not talking to you on a personal level outside work or on breaks then get over it. He's not interested in YOU as a person, just flirting.
2007-03-12 06:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by melvnews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does like you.
It seems likely that you are suffering from erotomania though in this case.
Try and read up about erotomania and see if it fits your behaviour. If it does, put a stop to it because it can get dangerous.
I am not trying to patronise you and he may very well like you but this sounds a bit like erotomania to me and it is very common, sorry.
Read the link below and you will see what I mean
2007-03-12 06:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one...since you work together, I would not pursue it...it would almost certainly jeopardize your job. What he is doing is wrong, especially at work. Try to remove and keep yourself away from circumstances that would put you in situations where you are close or alone with him.
2007-03-12 06:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him laughing at your jokes is a big sign, but he could just think your funny and want to be friends, if he laughs at everyjoke, then he likes ya.
2007-03-12 06:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you. I had the same experience. The physical heat between me and her would get worse and worse. I would then get boners all the time. It all finally ended up in a kiss.
2007-03-12 06:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Bob M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes u then again he could just be horny read into himwhat does he like u or the ggodies find out
2007-03-12 06:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is
2007-03-12 06:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋