Here's the story : We were an item for more than three years. He went back to his girlfriend whom he's with before we got together. We saw each other after 6 years at a high school reunion. I know I should have not entertained the idea to go with him and his friends to have a drink after the affair. But I felt like we needed to talk because we had no closure after all. So we talked. He cried and told me that he still thinks of me. He wants to give it another try. He's still with his girlfriend until now. And I know it's really stupid for me to think that he's sincere. My mind's stronger than my heart now. I said no. He's called me and sent me several messages and I just told him that we're over so he has to move on and I'd forgiven him already. I told him that maybe he just felt guilty after all this time and now it's time for him to let go of it. He's stopped communicating with me. I still think of him though. I still wish that he's sincere. I thought I was over him. Am I?
2007-03-12 05:53:16 · 2 answers · asked by still thinkin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask the question, I'd say you're maybe not all the way over him yet - but you handled the situation really well and I think you're on your way! You had a long history with him - 3 years is a pretty long time, I don't care if you're 18 or 40. Of course seeing him again made you remember some of the things you always liked about him. But there's no good excuse for him to be trying to get re-involved with you while he's with another woman. Bravo to you for being strong and respecting yourself!!!
2007-03-12 06:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did exactly the right thing.
You sound like you are mature and handled yourself well.
2007-03-12 12:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋