PLEASE HELP ME
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 or 3 monts now hes likes to joke alot yestersay he said he had something to say and he saod he had to leave tommorrow to florida, then i said WHAT then he said he was joking but weeks before he had said that he had to tell me somthing i was not going to like and he aid that if didnt tell me my cousin would then he told me he went to a babyshower which i was going to go to but couldent then he went and said he made out with one of my cousins friend. i forgave him becuase i love him but i'm not sure if he loves me what do i do i'm about to die before he told me that we were together and he told me he loved me should i believe him ??PLEASE HELP I'M GOING TO DIE
2007-03-12 05:48:14 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK I CAN LET HIM GO BUT I LOV HIM AND I'M PREGNATE (I'M 16)
2007-03-12 05:52:27 · update #1
For heavens' sake, you aren't going to die. You are, in fact, going to live on to get hysterical over a whole LOT of boys who will be mysteries to you. It's what girls do at your age - enjoy it.
2007-03-12 05:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DIE!!!!! Ask him str8 up what it is!
If he fell in love or lust w/ someone else then it's not true love on his part. And a man like that you don't need. You have only been seeing him for 2-3 months. It takes about 2-3 years to really get to know someone. I know it might feel terrible but don't do anything stupid. During your life you may fall in love or lust with many men until you find your husband. People change and people change quickly. You may find yourself in his shoes someday. Think of it that way. What is he...Brad Pitt?
2007-03-12 12:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....if a guy cheats and doesnt feel sorry about it and trys so hard to make it up to u and tells u that he doesnt even talk to that girl anymore, then u kno he loves u..sometimes guys need to cheat in order to see if they really care about anyone else...im not saying its a good thing, but it happened to me..he told me he loves me and hes really sorry and once a cheater always a cheater isnt true...everyone cheats, and once u made that mistake and learned from it, then it wont happen again...but its not the end of the world and if he doesnt show u hes "sorry" then girL u dont need him! everything happens for a reason...okay!!
2007-03-12 12:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by JB. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, you are NOT going to die because some piece of crap boyfriend made out with someone else. What you need to do is get some self confidence and get rid of his lousy butt. Love is not supposed to hurt.
2007-03-12 12:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by nurse_33_burlington 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend had a girlfriend for bout 3 months also, he always jokes around with her tryin to get her mad. i kept saying that he would go to far and he did. next time i seen him he broke up with his gf, and his gf came to me cause i was the only one bein nice, but now U SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HIM CAUSE ITS ONLY GOING TO LEAD TO PROBLEMS!!!! if not and u hang onto him he will jsut break up with u later down the road, take action now so he will fell like the jacks** and miss out on a wonder person.good luck. tell me how it works out
2007-03-12 12:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Squeaker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his lying, cheating a**. I doubt your going to die over this, but if you do, blame him for everything.
Oh by the way, try spell check and review your questions before submitting them.
2007-03-12 12:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by yuertydef 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not going to die, relax and tell someone you trust about this situation, im sure you can figure out a solution, good luck hon' i know the situation seems bad but this is not uncommon
2007-03-12 13:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, you're not gonna die. "Mariposa" is the perfect name for you - a caterpiller that is vulnerable that turns into something beautiful - that is also very vulnerable.
Stand up and defend yourself - don't take this kind of crap from him. If you don't, you'll be taking crap your whole life from everyone.
2007-03-12 12:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your life is worth more than this. Don't die. Let him go instead and be happy for a change.
2007-03-12 12:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you aren't going to die. you are only 13 or some sort. you have like 57 years of your life left
2007-03-12 12:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋