do truly mean and bitter women get what they want. bc it seems like guys don’t want nice girls they stay with the bitter mean women. But yet I as a nice person and have a lot going for my self get stuck by my self. Or get lied to or cheated on do you think i should start being a bitter and mean and then I start getting everything I want.
2007-03-12 05:43:51 · 11 answers · asked by ♥live life to the fullest♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But would you really want it anymore if what you had to do to get it was to lie to yourself & pretend to be someone you're not?
The good guy doesn't always finish last, & I know how awful it is to feel everyone is taking advantage of you, but would you really want to be with someone who likes bitter people? Just be nice and true to yourself and I'm sure there are other people out there who are kind and nice just waiting to meet you!!
2007-03-12 05:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no don't change for the worse! I can completely understand what you mean because I'm a nice guy and believe me it is the same way for men to women. All of those girls who are mean and have nice handbags probably feel empty inside because their man who really treats them bad and cheats on them has to buy her a Coach bag so she will forgive him. These women tell you how great things are because they are fake and need to mask their own emotions. Stay true to yourself and the right person will come along- If you want a broken heart and a designer hand bag then be fake!
2007-03-12 13:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by 7-12mobb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be bitter and mean. It usually just makes you unhappy,believe me, I've been there. I've been a nice girl for awhile now and I'm married and have a great job. Good things come to those who wait. Just remind yourself that you're probably happier alone then with the wrong person. I know I was! Good Luck!
2007-03-12 12:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kellybug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should continue to value yourself as a nice person and NOT turn into a "mean girl" Being nice doesn't necessarily mean having to be alone. By all means, don't be a push-over either. Some guys are thrilled by having a girl who keeps them on their toes, better known as "HIGH MAINTENANCE" but there are plenty of guys out there who would love you for the sweet, considerate lady you are. I'd be willing to bet that your best guy friend secretly wishes that YOU were his girlfriend, and Vice Versa. Keep your eyes and heart open to all of the possibilities.
2007-03-12 13:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should never change who you are in order to compromise. Be the nice caring person you claim to be and eventually karma will work itself out and you will end up with someone who loves and respects the real you... not a stuck up ***** that you will be betraying.
2007-03-12 12:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, those bitter and mean biatches lose wut they hav in the end cuz of their meaness and bitterness.
dont be like that just cuz u went through som tough experiences, those r just things that tells u 2 keep on lookin for the right one. if u start bein mean and bitter, u might get wut u want at the start but it aint gon last, where as if u nice, it takes som work and effort but eventually somethin will give and u'll get it and thats gon last. u be glad u didnt get mean and nasty.
2007-03-12 13:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, be yourself, and you will get what is right for you. Don't try to become someone you're not. It will just make you miserable in the long run.
2007-03-12 12:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah,there are some bad apples out there....but I'm a firm believer that good things happen to good people...and as seahawk mention,it happens when you least expect it...hang in there girl!!!!
2007-03-12 12:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont change ok......
just you wait love is worth waitng for and all the guys you have is not right for you now just wait
2007-03-12 12:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by candy_cola11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should remain the same. Don't change to try to please a man. A "good man" will someday find you and appreciate you for who you are.
2007-03-12 12:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋