If my man cheated on a girl 4 years ago. Does this mean that he will cheat on me?
2007-03-12 05:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Mo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no..if he really loves you,he will not do anything to hurt you,like cheating you..but try to see his behavior,dnt put ur trust so much to him..but u knw it doesnt mean that if he cheated his ex gf,he will do the same to you..wat if he change and he loves you so much than his previous gf..so better not to think a negative to your bf,.gudluck 2ur relationship..
2007-03-12 05:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, yes. Odds are that he will cheat but there is the chance that if he's REALLY serious about you, he'll change his ways and stay faithful. However this could change when there are other strains on your relationship. Tough call.
You can probably get a good idea of how trustworthy his is by his other actions.. Does he always call when he says he will? Do you know where he goes when you're not around? Who else calls him? Think about how the 2 of you met? Did he cheat on someone else to get with you? Are his friends players? Does he go to clubs? I'm not saying to stalk him.. but how open is he with you? Does he keep promises? Look at the big picture of what this guy is about and you'll probably get a better idea of how he deals with relationships.
2007-03-12 05:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully not, but if he has already decided that in some situations its alright to cheat on a gf, even though he knows it would hurt her, the chance that he will not do that again is pretty slim.. if he didnt care about others previously, what would have to happen to change that character flaw?
i say find someone else, or dont get too much into it with him.. and if you do get into it with him, maybe cheat on him before he has the chance to do it to you.. then you wont be as hurt
2007-03-12 05:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, it all depends on if he's grown up or not since then, if he's ready for a serious one woman relationship, and if you've betrayed him in anyway, I'd talk it over with him. Ask him how he feels about the relationship, and if he seems like he's just saying things you want to hear then that's probably exactly what he's doing. Also keep an eye out on any suspicious behavior. If he's staying out late and not inviting you, then he's probably screwing up. Good luck honey, there are good ones out there.
2007-03-12 05:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Keep in mind that is the only girlfriend he has cheated on...that you know of. There are probably more he isn't willing to admit too.
It's just a question of time, not if it will happen.
2007-03-12 05:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faithfulness or lack thereof is a character flaw more than anything else. It involves deceit and dishonesty. It may depend on other variables...such as his attitude (does he justify his bad behavior), his sincere regret, his acceptance of the responsibility, etc. I think I would have big questions and/or doubts in that situation.
2007-03-12 05:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely be careful, but not to the point where you push him away. I would try to find the reason why he cheated on her. If he was unhappy with her or in love with the other person he cheated with her on he may have his reasons for doing it.
2007-03-12 05:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kristin 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It depends on if he's grown up at all, and takes responsibility for what he did. If he still blames her for "making" him cheat, chances are he'll cheat on you.
2007-03-12 05:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely-
2007-03-12 05:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes because he has cheating tendencies.
2007-03-12 05:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋