Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me.
2007-03-12 05:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, But what boy wouldn't obsess over a amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose you. A special girl like you is hard to find. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad. I get lost in your eyes. I still haven't found a girl with your bright smile. I remember the last thing you said was I don't know you. You told me before that, when I was feeling down that you could tell something was wrong because you know me! I know I don't know everything about you, but I want to know everything about you. I really care about you you're special to me. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid. I should have understood then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I had for you
2007-03-12 05:40:04 · update #1
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, I realize that's worse. So, for these things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened and if necessary forget that there was any mention of romantic interest between us. Maybe we could chill and hang out somewhere sometime as just friends, because I know with you I don't have a chance. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you.(end)
2007-03-12 05:41:07 · update #2
This is not a letter, I want to say this to her. Guys and girls what do you think? Girls, would you talk to me again if you were her (I can handle the hard truth)? Are there any revisions I should do? How do I make this shorter so I don't bore her? I just have this feeling if I try actually talking to her instead of ignoring her she might listen. We've been saying hi to each other occasionally. I have not tried to speak to her in the time of us not talking, I've ony called once then hung up out of fear a long time ago, basically I haven't tried hard at all. The ignoring thing seems like it's taking too long in terms of her coming to me, but she sneaks glances at me from a distance. and that's just not me. I guess I'm just mister nice guy.
2007-03-12 05:42:13 · update #3
What do I do for her birthday? She turns 17 in two weeks. I turned 17 last month.
2007-03-12 05:43:22 · update #4
Would me saying, "But what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose you." make her mad? And what I mean by I didn't want to lose her is I didn't want to lose her to another guy even though I never "had" her.
2007-03-12 05:46:14 · update #5
That all will work. However, you should definitely take this "I still haven't found a girl with your bright smile" statement out. Girls don't like hearing things like that. If you say that, all that statement is going to mean to her is that instead of suffering from a broken heart, you actually went out and started to look at other girls. That is exactly the way that statement is going to ring in her head. Big, big no-no if you're trying to make up. Better say something like "I don't even want to look at anyone else other than you."
You don't have to make all that shorter. Girls like with their ears; the more you say, the better. If you keep things short and don't try to explain your feelings more and open up more, girls start feeling like they are being rejected.
Be persistent and sweet.
2007-03-12 06:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts and when friendships end well it tears you apart as well. sounds like to me you were wanting more from the relationship then she was. try staying in contact With her. have you tried writing her and telling her how you feel that way. sometimes a letter is a better way for one to express their true feelings. you might be surprised by the response you get from her.
2007-03-12 12:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by lilmystic63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg tats the sweetest thing a guy can say...u remind me of my bf he to is a sweetheart like u ...ur gf must not be thinking right she has something good right in front of her and not realize tat.....go ahead and tell her wat u think i think it will make her change her mind and talk to u again at least and who noes maybe get back together....she will be a lucky gurl tat way , not alot of guys r like u and my bf ...ive been goin out now 1 yr and were MADLY in love with each other....hopefully u and her might have the same luck to :D
2007-03-12 12:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by vanessa g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe. That is so sweet! That girl is crazy.
2007-03-12 12:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋