See my question from earlier, I have treid everything, I have told him that I would leave, (he says go ahead, I know where the door is), We both work everyday, I'm not a fatty, I do the housework, I take care of the kids, taken them dropping them off, ect. he gets sex 4 to 5 times a week, somtimes more, the only time he talked to me it is to say something about sex, nothing more (ever). he is not lovin in anyway, most of the time its all about him. When I tell him how a fill about things, he always has some reason as to why its my fault, it's always my fault no matter what the problem is. He always says that he loves me, but I cant tell. Can you tell??
2007-03-12 05:13:30 · 6 answers · asked by babycake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..i think its pretty clear that hes testing you..and he knows you wont leave....so i think its time that u stand up for ur self..and walk out...ignore him just like he did u..let him kno how it feels to b treated that way....but once u leave u have to promise not to communicate in any way, that way he "misses" you....guys do change, and if u notice he changes then youz can always get back together and work things out..but why make him happy and give him everything he wants if ur not happy?!?! dont u want to live ur life to the fullest?!? just because ur married doesnt mean u cant get a divorce....i kno its hard, but if ur happier that way, then why not!? its gonna b very difficult but remember everything happens for a reason...and it always turns out the best at the end..=) good luck!
2007-03-12 05:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are unhappy and he seams to be treating you like you are nothing or mean nothing to him, i would say talk to him about it but you have tried well maybe you should leave him and even if it is just for about a week and he will see what kinda person he lost and he will be hurt and suffer like what he is putting you through now, then he will want you back and if you feel like yall could work things out and all go back but if not try to move on i know its really hard maybe you can just work someting out with him and make him show you he loves you well goodluck and hope you can work things out
2007-03-12 12:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy then you should leave him. There is no reason why things that he is doing that make you unhappy are all your fault. It sounds to me like he is taking you for granted and if and when you finally do leave, I think that is the only time you will really know if he cares. As of right now, he knows it is an empty threat.
2007-03-12 12:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him if your not happy, sounds like he doesent really care what you both need is a hot steamy night togethor just talking sex talking sex and all that kind of stuff, you need to spice up your relationship.
2007-03-12 12:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He don't care. All he want you is for sex. Just tell him you're leaving and when you do, he'll know you we're kidding. Take your kids and live with a relative for a while until you get on your feet.
2007-03-12 12:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Inneed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u, he just doesnt kno how 2 show love. hes got alot on his mind(work, bills,etc.) u both need to plan a get away 2gether so u both can relax.
2007-03-12 12:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by grasshopper9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋