OK, here's the situation. I've noticed that everytime I leave for work my boyfriend looks at naked pictures of girls on the internet. It's not so much porn or videos but just naked girls posing different ways nude and exposing their you know what. I accidentally came across it in the history files once and now I check all the time and EVERY single time I'm away he looks at this stuff. I don't think it's lack of sex in our life....for example, we'll have had sex and the same day once I leave for work he looks at the naked pictures. What does this mean? I brought it up once a few weeks ago by making a joke and he just laughed it off and it never got brought back up again. This bothers me but I don't know whether to make an issue of it or just pretend that I don't know what he's doing at let it go cause apparently most guys look at some form of porn. Please let me know why he might be doing this and what I can do about it...
2007-03-12 05:12:27 · 2 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if its a LOT of pictures it could be a porn addiction. some guys just need to see a lot of different pictures most times its not even sexual its just a necessity.
more likely hes just a young guy and young guys get bored when they are on there own and the saying is that guys think about sex every 10 seconds so every 10 seconds hes thinking boobs... google.com. its normal. unless its upsetting you then who cares. maybe save a couple of male pics in your favourites folder or leave it open when hes around and if he gets annoyed at you, you bring up that you dont like him doing it...
good luck and dont worry about it.
2007-03-14 06:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naked pictures? I'm confused. Are the pictures naked, or the people in them are naked?
Allright I will stop pestering you because everybody seems to think that is the way to say it. At least you didn't write nekkid.
My advice: talk about it but consider it a real problem and don't necessary believe whatever he says the first few times. It is going to talk a long time to figure out the truth becuase he is embarassed by it and will try to minimize it and avoid the situation (illustrated by him laughing it off). In any case, every time you go to work is a problem and going to lead to bigger issues later. However, if you openly discuss it, going deeper each time, you may encounter some fantasies he has that you would be willing to fulfill, and that could lead to a better relationship. You should take your time to figure out the depth of the issue, but seriously, do not underestimate it or ignore it.
2007-03-15 06:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Exhibitionist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋