So we are in the same class... I tried being friends with her again since we are in the same class and lab... but she's been ignoring me first, then talks to me, and ignores be back again.. like she doesnt respect me... the thing is, we have alot of friends in common and I personally do not want to play the ignore game cause thats just not me and I want to be mature about this... but at the same time, I dont want her to step on me like that...
How do you suggest I should be around her during class?
2007-03-12 04:48:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forgot to mention that I dont want to lead her on thinking I want back.
2007-03-12 04:51:52 · update #1
Sit her down and explain that you don't want the two of you to be in a "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship, and you at least want her to be your friend. One thing girls need is closure. Don't ignore her back, that's just rude, even if she is ignoring you. She's just playing games to see if you'll make another move on her. Make sure she knows you don't want anything more than a friendship.
If you don't want to sit her down and tell her these things, you'll just have to deal with her games and ignoring/talking to you. She'll respect you for your explanation, trust me.
2007-03-12 04:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want to do the right thing. It would sound like you already have, talking to her and trying to be friendly. Good choice. However because she has choosing to turn on an off her friendship and you do have the same friends. I would suggest that you look at her as just another girl in the class and find someone else who like the things you do and start making a whole new world with her. You will find that this other girl , will because yesterdays memories and the things she does just won't matter anymore. It will show her real personality. Good or Bad. Either way you get your life back. Good Luck.
2007-03-12 04:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by freesample1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Don't act like she doesn't exist and not answer when she speaks to you. Just don't start any conversation with her and only talk to her when she asks you a question. That way when she wants to ignore you, you won't care. When she wants to talk to you you respond politely but give off no vibes that would make her think you wanted to reunite. Also I would avoid any group projects together.
2007-03-12 05:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by WriterChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself why is she my ex, then whether you mean it or not apologize for anything you may have done(don't expect her to apologize for anything she may have done[cheating, clingy,psycho, etc. ] ,remember your selling your soul to the devil, don't expect it to feel sorry for you), insist (if you do not have a current girl) on sitting near her and explain that your not going away until she becomes civil and at least speaks with you(and hold to it, remember were not trying to get back together were just trying to coexist). From there your on your own.
Also, ignoring her just shows how immature you are, or that you lack the confidence to demand being acknowledged.
2007-03-12 05:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by jreosvuisra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always that first awkwardness while be around an ex. It will dissipate with time. Just be yourself and don't worry what she's up to...if she is up to games or not...only she knows. Just hang out with your friends and enjoy yourself. If she talks to you, she does and if she doesn't she doesn't...she may simply just need some time to adjust in her own way. In the end, you'll see, it will work itself out. Good luck!
2007-03-12 05:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should treat her the same way u treat a complete stranger whom u meet for the first time , sweet , brief , and casual , if ur face to face then be sweet but very brief and dont ignore her , if she isnt in your line of sight then u dont have to specially walk up to her and talk , best of luck
2007-03-12 04:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by babyPalmtree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from her and if you want to be friends with her try talking about the future not the past
2007-03-14 06:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Brooke_C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally i don't like to be ignored either but if you give her a taste of her own medicine and ignore her then she might see how it feel and realize that she has been hurting you also.
2007-03-12 04:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat her like you would anyone else. Speak if spoken to and don't let her keep you from being you by having to avoid your friends and classmates due to her.
2007-03-12 04:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by just_my_2_cents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh id love to be in your shoes...i would be with alot of girls in the class and touch em and that kind of stuff..my ex would burn
2007-03-12 04:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋