Me and my ex have been doing the friend thing and only seeing each other like once a week for a almost a month which is what we both decided (meaning she decided) was the best thing. (I break up with her and she decides what to do about us... complicated.) We keep in touch, tell each other that we still love each other and still are pysical with each other. About a week ago she has a really crazy day that turned into a bad day for her and she doesn't call me. I finally get a hold of her and she says that her grandparents (she's living with them) tell her that she can't see me anymore because they don't like me but they hardly know me and she says I have two options. I can keep talking on the phone with her like every day or two or wait six like months and try to be friends again. We havn't talked since. Did I mention she likes to go out like 2 or 3 nights a week? What do I do and what does that *blank* mean? What has happened?
2007-03-12 04:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by K.S. THiS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is uncertain of what she wants. Act like you have a great life w/ out her & act like you're having a great time. She'll wonder what's going on w/ you & be more drawn toward the positivity. Maybe stand her up on ya'll's meetings a couple times. The grandparents are just an excuse. If someone really wants to be w/ someone, they will, regardless of others' opinions.
2007-03-12 04:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by J Doe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have actually been in that position before and the best answer to give you is to completely forget about her. Being friends with an ex-girlfriend almost never works out. My opinion is that if you broke it off with her, leave it at that and don't try to be friends, its much more trouble than its worth.
2007-03-12 04:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Deuce 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is controlling everything in this so called relationship. Maybe you should tell her want you want. And let her know you aren't playing any more games. It's either make a commitment to each other or move on.
2007-03-12 04:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she basically told you in a nice way that shes going to do what she wnats and that you can stick around and be her rebound if you want to. your free man go do what u want
2007-03-12 04:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by claricestarling182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has happend is she does not want you anymore she cares for you but she dont want to be w/u she wants to be w/sum1 else something is missing b/t u 2
2007-03-12 04:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she?
She sounds really immature.
IF she is teen-aged, I can understand.
Otherwise, get out, NOW!
2007-03-12 04:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by amelie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and space.I suggest you to move on with your life.
2007-03-12 04:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we like our space sorry babe but she needs time..no offense this happens to a lot of guys..
2007-03-12 04:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by ♥jonda♥sue♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want to talk with you anymore...Good Luck :)
2007-03-12 04:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got dumped!
2007-03-12 04:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋