How can you tell after only a few dates if the guy you are seeing actually wants to start a relationship with you or is just playing nice,and after sleeping with you will start looking for a back door?I mean do I have to actually tell him what I´m looking for,and hope he answers truthfully or do I have to just wait and see by his behavior?
2007-03-12 04:01:11 · 5 answers · asked by allstar86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree that holding off the sex for a while is a good thing to do. Guys who are really into you and care for you will wait. Those who are just in it for the sex will get angry and/or move on to someone else. Continue seeing him and enjoy his company and observe how he treats you.
It's good that you know what you are looking for. However, I wouldn't tell him because if he's just a player that will give him the opportunity to pretend to have what you want. The best way to determine if he really has what you are looking for is to spend more time with him and note how he behaves. Good luck.
2007-03-19 19:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Emma E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do either. Tell him to let you know if he's not interested because you are at a point of your life that you need to look for someone. and dont sleep with him until you guys are an official item, or you will be hurt if he high-tails it out the door.
2007-03-20 03:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold off on sleeping with him for a bit and if he sticks around then it might be that he really does want a relationship with you, then its ok to bang like rabbits!
2007-03-12 11:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by the Animal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be upfront with him, you prolly know how guys are at trying to figure girls out
2007-03-19 19:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you want and expect and in return ask him what he would like!
2007-03-19 15:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋