He initiated it and because I felt comfortable with him I let it happen. I dont regret it but I feel like other people think I went too far. We are both 20 btw.
2007-03-12 03:51:14 · 10 answers · asked by mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am also a virgin so no I am not easy.
2007-03-12 03:53:54 · update #1
and Can a relationship come from this?
2007-03-12 03:54:58 · update #2
Don't listen to what others say. Just listen to your heart. If you felt at ease and relaxed, then, why not?
There are no rules.
Enjoy it!
2007-03-12 04:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by amelie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making out isn't usually the best idea on the first date BUT It doesn't mean it will prevent a relationship from happening. I honestly believe that if he was going to call he will. If he wants to try a relationship he still will.
I think we often blame outselves for 'going too far' or not far enough or anything else when a lot of times they have already made up their minds. (we just assume its our fault.)
Next time maybe you could have a date in a very public place and that will lessen the chances of much more making out. (if you want to prevent it.)
If he doesn't call then just assume its him and not you.
Good luck either way.
2007-03-12 03:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 20?? no its not a bad idea and dont worry what other people may think ---- its your decision and yes a relationship may come from this just see what happens
2007-03-12 03:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even making out poses problems of its own...Mouth Herpes for one.
Also in my own experience making out is designed to lead elsewhere. At least that what I tell my wife!!
But seriously, guard your heart and if you believe you can maintain your purity standards while making out with this guy then Its not for me to judge. Just stay cautious.
2007-03-12 04:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship can come from this. Listen to your own instincts, not the words of others.
2007-03-12 03:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its a bad idea. u are old a nuff to make ur own decisions so dont take what other people r says as long as u feel u r rite u will be RIGHT!!!!!!
2007-03-12 03:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea there is nothing wrong with that, just leave most dated asheavy petting and makeout sessions. will always leave you both wanting more,, however, my wife was the type who said, "ok we are going to have sex right? because if not, i have to go" on our first date.
2007-03-12 03:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! It just shows that you are both on the same wavelength. Just cause you kiss you someone doesn't make you easy.
2007-03-12 03:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by lucky_777sevens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think it's about how comfortable you are with it, if you feel guilty then don't. good for you on the morals! just be careful
2007-03-12 03:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahh dont think so !! dont worry !! and try not to listen to other people !!
2007-03-12 03:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋