I was told that i had a son at they age of 12...And my son died because i could not have him...I was raped by my moms boyfriend one of them,And i don't know why i dont remember this,But i do remember my moms boyfriends touching me and stuff....And i don't remember some of my life...Why do you think my family would keep this from me...And do you think its true,Everyone is telling me now it is.
2007-03-12 03:49:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
u are such a freegen lier! from ur other questions u posted; some stated u were 14 now, i dont think in a 2 yr period u would not have any memory of having a child. get a life and quit posting untrue horrible stories for ur enjoyment!
2007-03-12 04:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You blocked it out. That's natures way of shielding our pain. Your not the only one thats happened to. Don't feel bad about yourself. I think it was a blessing to have forgotten about such a traumatizing ordeal at that age. God is watching over you...............It probably feels weird but your family most likely wanted to protect you too. It is time now, you are older and can deal with it better. Read some literature. It will help you understand what happened.
READ.........
http://www.caic.org.au/fms-sra/loftus5.htm
When women do not recall an abusive incident from nearly two decades earlier, does this mean that they repressed their memories? Not necessarily. In order to establish repression, it is necessary to first show that a memory existed in the first place . Perhaps some of the younger children who were examined, interviewed, or treated for sexual assault did not understand the meaning of their experience. It would be reasonable to assume that a parent might try to keep this knowledge from a young child in order to facilitate treatment or minimize damage to the child. If so, then some of these children never "knew" they were traumatized and thus had nothing to repress. This is not simply speculation, as there exist known cases of abused children who are interviewed by a psychotherapist but have no idea why they are being interviewed or are otherwise completely in the dark about the nature of their problem
2007-03-12 03:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear abt that. I think that got on ur mind n u didnot remember anythin..Its possible that ur family didnot want to tell u this coz u wudnot understand but when u r ready to understand they told u that.Its also possible that this is not true at all in that case I wud suggest u to contact a doctor..I hope this helps.
2007-03-12 03:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by raza5sa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad, I'm sorry to hear that. If they are telling you the truth, why would they do that to you?? If you didn't remember, then isn't it better to just leave well enough alone? My goodness, what kind of family do u have...this makes me angry the more I think about it. I hope you get this resolved and behind you.
2007-03-12 03:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by The QUEEN of EVERYTHING! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You repressed the memory, it's one of the brains defense mechanisms for something which was traumatizing. Sounds like you had a crappy life. Counseling is a personal choice. Do you really want to have the memory back if your body's tried so hard to make you forget it. Take care.
2007-03-12 03:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by lisa_t197 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why anyone would makeup a story like that. I think you need to see a counselor. I know the answers you get here will be useless and maybe more damaging. Seek a Social Worker to give you the resources you need to find a good counselor.
2007-03-12 03:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by jason m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW this sucks! First of all why would they tell you something like this now!!!! Are they sure he died? I would ask more questions.
You tried your hardest to block all of this out your life. Don't break your head becuase of this!!!! If it's true....you can't do anything about it now!
I would just move on! Good luck hun...
2007-03-12 03:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, that's nuts, I'm sorry. If you are for real, go see a psychiatrist and work through this. Either you have seriously blocked things out or your family has been drugging you.
2007-03-12 05:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to get an exam. A Dr. would be able to tell you if you ever gave birth.
2007-03-12 04:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I do not think they are lying to you.Some times when you traumatize your mind sometimes try to forget it happen.They kept it from you because they did not want you to experience that at that age where you probably commit suicide.Some people do.
2007-03-12 05:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋