actually i loved a girl but from my own i left her because she was not very responsive to me and attitude problem....
may be i am unable to describe why i left her... but simply i wanna say that i really disliked her...
its 3 months now we are not talking @ all
but the problem is that whenevr i see her i really gets irritated ... and outbursts on others only on simple matters.....
me very short tempered... but this girl is the main reason for this....
plz help out to tackle this problem as i am unable to control my self
- wishes
2007-03-12 03:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let go of your anger and frustration that you Have toward her.
You are holding on to something that is in the past.
you need to live for now and the future and get on with your life.
If you let her get to you, it is like you are giving your power over to her.
This is about unresolved bitterness.
if you live your life like this you will become consumed....
Let it go .
there are nice people out there waiting.....
2007-03-12 03:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was her with the attitude problem? Sounds like you have some issues still with her. You've broken up, it's been 3 months, she shouldn't be bothering you at all. Doesn't sound to me like she is doing anything wrong. If you are having all these anger issues, maybe you should talk to a counselor and try to find out why? Being short tempered and having anger issues is not something you want to take into a new relationship with anyone. Find the source of the problem and work on that and then you may be able to move on. Good luck!
2007-03-12 10:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you left her. Getting her back will take more effort than getting her in the first place. Do not act irritated. Don't show negativity. People are drawn to positiveness. If you act like you're having fun, she'll want to be a part of it. Even if you're horrible, act like you're not. Act like you don't care, because you have a life. She will go crazy w/ curiosity.
2007-03-12 11:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obvously have some big issues with this girl i suggest you go speak to a counciller about your anger problem then try to address the rest of the problem..good luck
2007-03-12 10:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by claire4john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋