My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We just had a beautiful baby girl in November 06'. Our sex lives have always been a wee bit moody. Its takes me along time to orgasm and it takes him 2min too orgasm. So lets just say I am really not that impressed. Well I dont anyways.
My concern is that my boyfriend is 27 years old and I am 19. He loves to look at porn. He says that it is hard not to look at Meg its like quitting smoking you cant just quit cold turkey.
Do you have a problem with your fiance looking at porn?
Does it bother you?
Does it make you feel like your not worth anything?
Not only does he look at big **** and pussy he likes to look at YOUNG porn? Would one of you mind looking at this website and tell me if this is too young for a man this age?
www.onlyteenstpg.com
Are these girls 18 years of age?
The girls look alittle bit young?
Is it just me or am I freaking out for nothing?Not only is he doing this to you your upstairs while he is on it?
Plz
2007-03-12 03:24:21 · 18 answers · asked by ImAMommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have porn but no relationship !, does that help
2007-03-12 03:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-16 23:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how the guys on porn go soo long lol. Tell him to do what the guys on there do. It may intimidate him and make him stop watching that cause he'll think its giving you ideas. lol . No but seriously guys are just like that. It's alllll-most all about sex. Sex thoughts every 4 minutes but he has to be able to control as do you. Watch it together if you must and make it a couple thing not a dirty one man show. It doesn't matter how young the girls are (unless they are under 18) they shouldn't be looking at the people that close more at the actions involved and the couple having sex. I don't think your freaking out ......yet but you do and should do something about it. Talk to him and put limits on it. Don't tell him he cant look at it anymore but put rules on him without it being a bad thing. Try different things. Say ok we are going to watch this and I want you to try to do this from the film or so.
2007-03-12 03:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have a lot in common...your 19 and your boyfriend is 27 and I'm 18 and mine is 26 (so when I'm 19 he will be 27) and y'all have been together for 2 & 1/2 years and we have been together for 2 years...and you just had a baby and i'm about to have a baby (I'm 34 weeks pregnant)...
But AnyWayz...about tha porn thing...see my man is not addicted to it or nothing...but he will watch it and look at magazines and what not...but i'd hate to make a big deal out of it...because i'd rather him WATCH it than actually going out and DOING it with other people...or going out watching ACTUAL people goin' at it...ya know?...but i just tell him that i have to be around when he wants to look at porn...ya know...so we are looking at it together as a couple and if he gets hard from it...well then wahtta ya know- I'm Right There :))) and the hornier people are the better the sex is....so we both get what we want :)))
2007-03-12 15:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by *Gina* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok don't freak out to bad everyone looks at porn sometime in their life!! Now if he is watching it more than touching you then it is a problem. Is he masterbating to it or just watching? Maybe he is trying to learn something new! I love my man looking at other girls because I know that no matter how pretty then are I'm the one that has him. you are right those girls do look young but they must be 18 it's the law! They make them look young to attract older guys I know gross right but it's true!! I don't think you have to worry and if you do they ask him to only do it when your around!!!
2007-03-12 03:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a problem with your fiance looking at porn? No its a 'guy' thing, I've learned to accept it, sometimes join in too.
Does it bother you? If its not going out of limits, then it doesnt.
Does it make you feel like your not worth anything? Not at all. Pornstars ahve a sick lifestyle - I find it unethical.
Not only does he look at big **** and ***** he likes to look at YOUNG porn? Would one of you mind looking at this website and tell me if this is too young for a man this age? Too young? If its below like , 16 then you should be worried babe. Otherwise, its just fine, I guess.
www.onlyteenstpg.com
Are these girls 18 years of age?
The girls look alittle bit young? I'm not lookin at that site.. Sorrry...
Is it just me or am I freaking out for nothing?Not only is he doing this to you your upstairs while he is on it? Honey, let me tell you one thing, watching porn is a natural way of guys coping up with all the years of sex they didnt get. They live in a fantasy world, Porn is just a factasy. YOU are his real life. All guys look at porn, if not THAT digusting, I've learned to accept it... maybe you should too.
2007-03-12 03:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is normal for some couples to watch porn. my fiance and i do he is 26 i am 23. HOWEVER I dont get down when they look all young and shitt. not saying your man is a pervert but you do need to watch him on that. the fact that he is with you and you are considered still very young is another warning sign. i was freaked out about porn at fisrt 2. me and my man have been together for 3 years and i just started watching it about 6 months ago. talk to him about how you feel. also if he is coming to fast maybe yall should do more fore play or after he comes he still can do things for you with his fingers, mouth, dildo, vibrator, etc. there are ways for you to get yours too!
2007-03-12 03:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is watching porn for a reason...Have you considered that? You said you have had a baby, what does your body look like? Are you a big sloppy mess? If you have done nothing to get yourself in shape since having the kid, don't cry about him only lasting 2 minutes. He probably just wants to get it off and get it over with. If he is like most guys he can bust really fast if he wants to. You are only 19, you have no excuse to allow your body to look like crap. I apologize if you are a great physical shape but guys will still watch porn because it gives us something to do. There's nothing you can do about it except maybe leave him. Something tells me that you don't have enough self esteem to leave him anyway. Have a good day.
2007-03-12 04:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi!
Congratulations on your baby girl!
Listen, it's not that big of a deal if your man likes looking at porn - most men do it, anyway. It's their thing.
However, what is puzzling me is that he likes young porn.
I suggest that you have a quiet conversation with him about porn. Ask him what it is that he likes about this site, porn in general and young porn in particular.
Tell him how it makes you feel.
Talk about what you like him to do, as far as sex is concerned, and ask him what he likes you to do.
All in all, try to keep calm.
I hope everything works out.
2007-03-12 03:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by amelie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to look at porn for a guy, plus 18 year old chicks are hot, i mean come on just about every guy likes fresher meat. lots of 18 year old chicks have really nice skin and hot bodies with that virgin look. your mans normal. hey atleast he doesn't look at guys hehe
2007-03-12 03:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would freak out too, I don't think porn is okay. Bothers me alot that men can get off on damaged women, and they are.
2007-03-12 03:29:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋